My mom told me she hates me and I wanna runaway.

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My mom can in my room awhile after I got home and started yelling(slightly raised voice) at me about how I need to stop wallowing in self pity( I'm depressed..) And I need to help her more. And that since im the only "woman" (I'm just a girl) I. The house I should know how she feels. Then she told me she hated me.. Not that she wanted to hate me and she wanted a good relationship, but every time I'm happy she always come in and yells at me..

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RE: My mo told me she hates me and I wanna runaway

Thank you reaching out to us here at the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are going through a really hard time with your mom right now. It seems like a tough situation to be in. We want you to know that we are here to listen and help in the best way we can.

You mentioned that you are depressed. Have you tried talking to your mom or an adult that you trust about some of the feelings you are experiencing? Depression can be a really hard thing to deal with on your own. We want you to know that you don’t have to face this by yourself. If you don’t have anyone you trust, we have lots of counseling resources in our database that might work for you. If you wanted to call/chat with us, you could talk to us about what you are feeling and we might be able to give you some resources in your area.

Another option might be the conference call. Here at NRS we offer a conference call service where we would serve as a mediator between you and your mom so you both can talk about what’s going on. We are not here to take sides but rather to make sure both of your voices are being heard.

You also mentioned that you are thinking of running away. Unfortunately we aren’t legal experts, but we could give you some general information regarding running away. Running away is not a status offence which means you can’t be arrested for running away. However if the police find you after you’ve run away, they would be mandated to bring you back to your legal guardians unless some type of abuse or neglect is going on that you would be willing to report. If you are staying with someone without your legal guardian’s permission, the police might charge them with harboring a runaway. But laws vary depending on where you live. One way you would be able to find out is by reaching out to a legal aid or contacting your local police department. We would be able to provide you with some resources for these agencies if you were to give us a call or chat in with us.

If you’d like to explore any of these options, please feel free to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or reach out to us through our live chat service which is available from 4:30 PM to 11:30 PM CST every day. We wish you the best of luck in whatever it is you decide to do, we also hope to get your call soon.

Stay strong,

NRS

[Guest]

Yesterday my mom and I had a nasty fight. She told me that I was the reason her life was ruined and that everything fell apart with my birth. She said she hated me and the feeling for her was beginning to feel more real everyday. She said she wanted me gone. I started crying and was lost in my own tears and sarrow. I asked her a few times "do u mean it?" And she said yes. She replied I hated you for quite some time now. A few hours later, I kissed her and said I love you but she never looked at my face.

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Hi there,
We’re so sorry to hear that your mother is treating you this way. You don’t deserve to be made to feel like you’re to blame for her decisions. It sounds really hard to hear this coming from your mother. We want you to know that you’re not alone and we are here to support you in any way we can.
It sounds like things are really tense right now. Sometimes it can be helpful to have a close friend or relative you can turn to for support in times like this. It might even be helpful to have this person try to speak to your mother with you and be there for support if you need it.
If you’d like, we can be that support for you too. We’re available here 24/7 at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or you could try reaching out to us here on this website on our Live Chat.
Be safe,
NRS

[Guest]

my mom yelled at me bc I was playing with my stister and she said she hated me and I started to cry and I went to fall asleep and she continues and just makes me yell at her and she told me if she died it would be my fault

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Hello there, thanks for reaching out today. Sounds like your sister is saying some hurtful things to you; which cannot be easy to deal with.

If you haven't already you might tell your parents about what she is saying so they can intervene. If you need help talking to your parents, you can call us 24/7 at 1-800-RUNAWAY for our conference call service. We can mediate a call with you all if you would like a space space to share what your sister did and how you are feeling. You might also think about ways you can avoid your sister as well. If possible you could try to not be in the same room as her alone while she is saying mean things to you.

If you would like help brainstorming your options or need any support don't hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY or chat us at www.1800runaway.org.

Best,

NRS

[Guest]

My said she hate me now and say I was in her stomach for 9 months and in labor with me in 17 hours and she keep saying that I respect everyone but not her and I do respect her she just get on my nerves sometimes and be bothering me and I don't like that so I feel like running away should i

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Hi, and thank you for writing to us here at the National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out. You asked us if you should run away. At NRS we are non-directive, meaning we aren't here to tell people what they should or shouldn't do. The reason for this is that we trust that you know your situation the best.

We are here as support to help through this challenging time. It's likely we could help best if you could call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chat with us (www.1800RUNAWAY.org) as we are unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin. Hope to hear from you soon, NRS

[Guest]

my mom calls me a slut and threatens to send me back to foster care bc I sent bad pictures and she yells at me all the time and outs me down i asked her if she wanted to even work on our relationship and she said she has and that im the one whos messing everything up. im trying to do better but i cant when my mom tells me she hates me and that im a whore

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Hello there,
Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, it takes a lot of courage to reach out and we are so glad that you did. You do not deserve to be called names and we are sorry you are going through all of that.
One option to consider is to talk with your school counselor about what has been going on. They may be able to provide resources and be able to offer you support with this situation. Another option is you could talk to your mother about going to family counseling. A family counselor would be able to help you both come to a solution and hopefully have a better relationship.
We hope that this information will be helpful to you in your situation, If you have any more questions or would like to explore options please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and to provide support to you. We wish you the best of luck!
NRS

[Guest]

im 15 and im literally down to my last breath with myself about this but i feel that my mom hates me bc ever since i was little shes been telling me herself and ever since she met her boyfriend shes been treating me like i dont belong with her. she had my sisters and treats them way better than me and alot of my family notices too. she calls me bad names to my face DAILY and screams at me for the littlest things. she told me she wants me to live with someone else even though i was fostered for almost a year. i try so hard so she could see that i just want to be loved by my own mom. i cry about evrything she does to me emotionally every night. my bestfriend passed away last year in april and now she says its my fault and i actually started to believe her.. idk what to do im so scarred and dont know what to do. any advice ? i would appreciate it so much <3

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Hi there,

Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on with your mom. You do not deserve to be treated that way, and we are so sorry for the loss of your boyfriend. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.

Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

We hope to hear from you soon.

Be safe, NRS

[Guest]

my mom doing to much because of my sisters birthday and i moved the ballon they think im salty.

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Thank you for contacting us here at NRS,
We appreciate you reaching out to us and sharing a bit about what is going on. We are sorry that there is a bit of drama at home. It seems like maybe you and your family might need to work things out. If that is the case we offer conference calling as a means to help youth discuss things out with their parents. This might help in bringing some communication with you and your parents.
We are here as support to help through this challenging time. It's likely we could help best if you could call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or chat with us (www.1800RUNAWAY.org) . Hope to hear from you soon, NRS