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  • I hate him so much , I just ran away from home and have gone to my dads house . He has made me cry so much and he does that allot . He shouts at me and is just so rude and every time I retaliate my mum shouts at me but I cannot help it . I really don’t like him but he is the father of my 2 little brothers . He just gets me sooooo angry to the point where I want to punch something . I really don’t know what to do . I want to live at my dads house forever . (I am 13)


    • ok,ive contacted NRS before with stiff like this,when i turn 18 im probably going to move out,me and my stepdad barely get along and now he has the audacity to have fill up a box of my belongings and put them in a separate room till i move out,and he has taken away my privacy,im turning 18 on the 14th of november and he treats me like a [email protected]#$%^ 8 yr old and im sick of it,ive kived in what feels like prison to me for 4 yrs and its a living hell,i have no freedom all i can do is watch tv,and when i repeat something that i know i said,he replies saying no that aint what you said,and then we have a massive argument,and also is there any resources NRS offers to help find housing and jobs by any chance,btw i plan on joining the south carolina national guard after i graduate high school to pay for college,ive realized its time that i try and make it own my own and prove anyone who doubted me wrong,i know right from wrong,and going back to the whole stepdad situation i never wanted a father figure,my real dad was a otr truck driver most of my life and i lost him to cancer in 2016.


      • ccsmod2
        ccsmod2 commented
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        Hello There,
        Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are going through an incredibly difficult situation. Also we are sorry about the loss of your father, losing a parent is very difficult.
        You are super close to becoming 18, which in most states is the legal age to leave home. One resource to help you find jobs could be Also as far as housing you can give us a call and we can help you look for a transitional living program if that is something you would be interested in.
        We hope this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore more options please give us a call, we are here 24/7. Best of luck!

    • Ive contacted NRS before,just wrote something about 5 mins ago ,i wanted to mention that i want to see how i would do on my own and my stepdad was in town and i she said well then me, you, and wayne,(stepdad) will hae to sit down and talk about it because hes the father figure and the man of the house basically,and they talk about everything i mean EVERYTHING! in private of course but people will get the jist,my mom and wayne are not married,technically they are,and it is my moms concern what decisions i make,and he said if i plan to stay under his roof ill have to sign a contract,and im not signing jackdiddly squat,i still cant grow my beard out


      • My mom’s boyfriend is a jerk. First to start off he loves to annoy people. Especially me no matter what it is. He will do anything and everything within his power to annoy me. He turns off the internet in the middle of the day for no reason. Throws candy wrappers on my bed etc. He knows this annoys me and he loves when I’m in my room and no anywhere near him. He loves that he does not allow me to play video games. He thinks this is all just a joke but knows it is not. He also always talks about me but never too me. I constantly hear him talking to my mom about me and she doesn’t just ignore it. The only good times at my mom’s house is when he’s working. It’s always great to spend time with my mom like a normal human being. She knows that I do not like him and she tries but he deceives her. He convinces her I am in the wrong. He also is vocally abusive. Explicit language nonstop and has once even called my mom an idiot and yelled because he was drunk. That may not sound like a lot but he constantly does this sort of behavior. Makes offensive jokes or talks about people behind their backs. He also broke my IPad when I was 10 because I left it on the couch the day I got a new case for $50 THEN BLAMED IT ON THE DOG. I don’t even know to this day how that makes sense .Hess also stole my money because he once locked me out of the house as a joke and knocked on the door hard because it was 0 degrees out and he took my money to pay for the window without permission. One of the things that hurt me the most was when my brother noticed I was getting mad at him when I was 10 and he took me outside to talk and help me like a good brother. He then came out and said “what are you talking about” and my brother said “just leave us alone you’re not our dad” because we have a great father. He then proceeded to say “too bad” and that really pi***d me off. The last thing is he kicked my brother out for no reason because he ate my brother’s food and threw it away after because he left it out and it was BAD. After he kicked him out my brother had to sleep in his car and then he recently told me at that moment he didn’t care what happened to him and maybe he could just freeze to death ALL BECAUSE OF HIM. He’s just not a good person. He also drinks constantly. Sometimes he gets mad and yells and gets aggressive. When I was 11 I thought I broke my wrist so my mom was going to get tape for my hand. I waited in the car and she took a long time. I walk in and he’s yelling about how I’m lying and that sort of stuff only because my mom was taking me somewhere and leaving him for 15 minutes. He wanted to talk to me “like a man” but I was only a child. He that proceeded to ask if I needed to go to the hospital RIGHT NOW I said no in fear that it wouldn’t be and that would all be a waste. He asked me to squeeze his hand to see if it was broken and he kept asking me to squeeze and he squeezed my hand that was in pain very violently. I never went to get tape, and my hand ended up being broken. He then proceeded to lie about apologizing. I won’t let him win any longer. I will at least act like I like him and I know he will get mad. The only reason I don’t tell my mom to break up with him is because of her living status. She will be lonely when I’m at my dad’s because I’m going to be honest all my friends parents are rich and snobby and I’m glad she doesn’t like them. My problem is if my mom breaks up with him this is what will happen. We will probably have to move into an apartment that isn’t as nice as a home with a yard. She will not have much money because she’s a teacher for a private school nor payed for by the government. She will be lonely when she’s done with work and will go home and do nothing. But if I do not for anything than I will be constantly angry, annoyed, and sad that I have to live with this, and will never be able to spend time with my mom because he wants me to leave. I never spend time with my mom when he’s here, and that’s his plan to just “take my mom”. But I thought I should act like I like him like I said just to not let him win by getting me away so he can just be with my mom. I am really in trouble here and I am not sure what to do for me my brothers and my mom. There is so much more to say but this would be a whole book of stuff about him if you have any questions about what’s going on PLEASE ASK THEM because I know I may not have stated all the great information. Thank You.
        Last edited by ccsmod4; 11-15-2019, 08:17 AM.


        • ccsmod4
          ccsmod4 commented
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          Thanks for reaching out to the National Runaway Safeline.

          It sounds like you are in a tough situation and may be looking for some options to help cope with everything.
          We understand how difficult it must have been to speak about what you have been feeling.
          You are very brave for doing so. Good for you. You don’t deserve to be subjected to abuse of any kind. It’s not your fault that this is happening to you.
          NRS would like you to know we are here to support you at this difficult time.

          Let us know how we might help, please contact us at 1-800-Runaway (786-2929) (live chat).

          NRS is here to listen and here to help.
          Having a space to vent and explore options may often bring out a solution previously not thought of. We can best help by phone or chat. If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon.

          If you feel at risk or in danger we encourage you to reach out for immediate help by calling 9-1-1. You can also file an abuse report with child protective services by contacting Child Help at 1-800-422-4453

          You are very brave for reaching out.

          Take care and be safe,

      • Troy Wilding my step father is a horrible mean person that doesn’t care about a single person but himself. He’s is a judgemental narcissistic asshole who is racist. He treats everyone like ********. Including me, the worst. I have never hated someone so much before that I had to write this on the internet to share with other people dealing with the same problem. He makes me cry and makes me feel down about my self. He will scream in my face inches away. Cuss at me call me names. He had the worst temper and is so old school that it truly makes him the worst kind of person. Someone who is mentally ********ed up and needs psychiatric help. Please help me somehow someone out there.


        • ccsmod3
          ccsmod3 commented
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          Thank you for reaching out us. We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.
          Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.Please reach out soon so that we may offer support and resources to you. Our number is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929).

      • Step Dads are dumb. he just gave me a ridicilous haircut now im being bullied
        Last edited by ccsmod13; 12-04-2019, 08:57 PM. Reason: Inappropriate language


        • ccsmod13
          ccsmod13 commented
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          Hi there,

          We are sorry to hear that you are being bullied and you deserve to feel loved and supported. It can be hard when step parents don’t understand you. Perhaps having a safe space to talk about the situation will help you feel better and connect you with someone who can offer support. This could be another family member or a school counselor.

          If you want to talk more about what has been going on at home, please feel free to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY or use our live chatting service on our website

          We look forward to hearing from you so that we can help,
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