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**Guest** · 11-05-2019, 11:57 AM

I hate him so much , I just ran away from home and have gone to my dads house . He has made me cry so much and he does that allot . He shouts at me and is just so rude and every time I retaliate my mum shouts at me but I cannot help it . I really don’t like him but he is the father of my 2 little brothers . He just gets me sooooo angry to the point where I want to punch something . I really don’t know what to do . I want to live at my dads house forever . (I am 13)

**Guest** · 11-05-2019, 06:04 PM

ok,ive contacted NRS before with stiff like this,when i turn 18 im probably going to move out,me and my stepdad barely get along and now he has the audacity to have fill up a box of my belongings and put them in a separate room till i move out,and he has taken away my privacy,im turning 18 on the 14th of november and he treats me like a [email protected]#$%^ 8 yr old and im sick of it,ive kived in what feels like prison to me for 4 yrs and its a living hell,i have no freedom all i can do is watch tv,and when i repeat something that i know i said,he replies saying no that aint what you said,and then we have a massive argument,and also is there any resources NRS offers to help find housing and jobs by any chance,btw i plan on joining the south carolina national guard after i graduate high school to pay for college,ive realized its time that i try and make it own my own and prove anyone who doubted me wrong,i know right from wrong,and going back to the whole stepdad situation i never wanted a father figure,my real dad was a otr truck driver most of my life and i lost him to cancer in 2016.

**Guest** · 11-05-2019, 06:18 PM

Ive contacted NRS before,just wrote something about 5 mins ago ,i wanted to mention that i want to see how i would do on my own and my stepdad was in town and i she said well then me, you, and wayne,(stepdad) will hae to sit down and talk about it because hes the father figure and the man of the house basically,and they talk about everything i mean EVERYTHING! in private of course but people will get the jist,my mom and wayne are not married,technically they are,and it is my moms concern what decisions i make,and he said if i plan to stay under his roof ill have to sign a contract,and im not signing jackdiddly squat,i still cant grow my beard out

**Guest** · 11-14-2019, 11:41 PM

My mom’s boyfriend is a jerk. First to start off he loves to annoy people. Especially me no matter what it is. He will do anything and everything within his power to annoy me. He turns off the internet in the middle of the day for no reason. Throws candy wrappers on my bed etc. He knows this annoys me and he loves when I’m in my room and no anywhere near him. He loves that he does not allow me to play video games. He thinks this is all just a joke but knows it is not. He also always talks about me but never too me. I constantly hear him talking to my mom about me and she doesn’t just ignore it. The only good times at my mom’s house is when he’s working. It’s always great to spend time with my mom like a normal human being. She knows that I do not like him and she tries but he deceives her. He convinces her I am in the wrong. He also is vocally abusive. Explicit language nonstop and has once even called my mom an idiot and yelled because he was drunk. That may not sound like a lot but he constantly does this sort of behavior. Makes offensive jokes or talks about people behind their backs. He also broke my IPad when I was 10 because I left it on the couch the day I got a new case for $50 THEN BLAMED IT ON THE DOG. I don’t even know to this day how that makes sense .Hess also stole my money because he once locked me out of the house as a joke and knocked on the door hard because it was 0 degrees out and he took my money to pay for the window without permission. One of the things that hurt me the most was when my brother noticed I was getting mad at him when I was 10 and he took me outside to talk and help me like a good brother. He then came out and said “what are you talking about” and my brother said “just leave us alone you’re not our dad” because we have a great father. He then proceeded to say “too bad” and that really pi***d me off. The last thing is he kicked my brother out for no reason because he ate my brother’s food and threw it away after because he left it out and it was BAD. After he kicked him out my brother had to sleep in his car and then he recently told me at that moment he didn’t care what happened to him and maybe he could just freeze to death ALL BECAUSE OF HIM. He’s just not a good person. He also drinks constantly. Sometimes he gets mad and yells and gets aggressive. When I was 11 I thought I broke my wrist so my mom was going to get tape for my hand. I waited in the car and she took a long time. I walk in and he’s yelling about how I’m lying and that sort of stuff only because my mom was taking me somewhere and leaving him for 15 minutes. He wanted to talk to me “like a man” but I was only a child. He that proceeded to ask if I needed to go to the hospital RIGHT NOW I said no in fear that it wouldn’t be and that would all be a waste. He asked me to squeeze his hand to see if it was broken and he kept asking me to squeeze and he squeezed my hand that was in pain very violently. I never went to get tape, and my hand ended up being broken. He then proceeded to lie about apologizing. I won’t let him win any longer. I will at least act like I like him and I know he will get mad. The only reason I don’t tell my mom to break up with him is because of her living status. She will be lonely when I’m at my dad’s because I’m going to be honest all my friends parents are rich and snobby and I’m glad she doesn’t like them. My problem is if my mom breaks up with him this is what will happen. We will probably have to move into an apartment that isn’t as nice as a home with a yard. She will not have much money because she’s a teacher for a private school nor payed for by the government. She will be lonely when she’s done with work and will go home and do nothing. But if I do not for anything than I will be constantly angry, annoyed, and sad that I have to live with this, and will never be able to spend time with my mom because he wants me to leave. I never spend time with my mom when he’s here, and that’s his plan to just “take my mom”. But I thought I should act like I like him like I said just to not let him win by getting me away so he can just be with my mom. I am really in trouble here and I am not sure what to do for me my brothers and my mom. There is so much more to say but this would be a whole book of stuff about him if you have any questions about what’s going on PLEASE ASK THEM because I know I may not have stated all the great information. Thank You.

**Guest** · 12-02-2019, 01:19 AM

Troy Wilding my step father is a horrible mean person that doesn’t care about a single person but himself. He’s is a judgemental narcissistic asshole who is racist. He treats everyone like ********. Including me, the worst. I have never hated someone so much before that I had to write this on the internet to share with other people dealing with the same problem. He makes me cry and makes me feel down about my self. He will scream in my face inches away. Cuss at me call me names. He had the worst temper and is so old school that it truly makes him the worst kind of person. Someone who is mentally ********ed up and needs psychiatric help. Please help me somehow someone out there.

**Guest** · 12-04-2019, 07:16 PM

Step Dads are dumb. he just gave me a ridicilous haircut now im being bullied

**Guest** · 12-17-2019, 07:01 PM

Hi, I'm 13 years old right now at the moment. My current situation isn't all too pretty. I've had a hard time ever since I was a baby. My biological father made some horrible decisions and he committed suicide after I was a year old. Ever since then, my mom has had a lot of boyfriends. Some were in jail, prison, lived far away, just always distant. Yet this time her boyfriend lived a town away. At first glance, he looks like a harmless sweet guy, until you do something to his disliking. I met the true C.A's (His Initials for Safety purposes) when I "messed up". My cousin passed away this summer and I had a really hard time with it, he was the only real brother I had, it hurt a lot when I got the news about his death. I even tried pretending that it wasn't real and I still pretend that he's gonna surprise me at school in his military uniform. Yet I know it won't ever happen. Anyways, I went to stay with my sisters at my Uncle's house. I love my uncle but I had a lot of stress and I was constantly crying and my sisters kept saying I had no reason to cry. I don't even think that they shed a tear. And after that, I just snapped and I yelled and yelled and yelled. I couldn't take it anymore, and my mom yelled at me for it and she wouldn't understand how I felt. My sisters are her favorites by the way. And my sisters started acting like they did nothing and I told my mom "I'm gonna hit her", and my mom's boyfriend decided to hit me! He ISN'T even her actual husband! It is illegal for him to hit me since he is not my father in any type of way. I've gotten hit for other things such as "crying and making a scene in public", I can't help it if my eyes are watery from you yelling at me for walking! And I got hit for chewing gum, saying my mom's boyfriend's son wasn't my blood, HE'S NOT! And more but I don't wanna list them because they are seriously dumb! I've had so many bruises from this man, it's unbelievable. He treats his real children so much differently. It's all about them too. I help them with their homework, video games, cleaning, showers, etc. And they treat me like garbage half the time. I just CANNOT take it anymore. It's affecting my schoolwork as well. And my mom's boyfriend told me that if I call him my stepdad, that he'll hit me. So um yeah, and I just want to leave. I wish I was adopted by a family that actually saw me for me. That noticed little things and wanted to spend time with me instead of calling me a screwup and an idiot, dumb, stupid, annoying, retarded. I was even called a mistake. I even cried today because I just didn't want to come home. I want to talk to somebody, but I know it'll just end worse for me. -8th grader J.

**Guest** · 12-20-2019, 04:28 PM

Yeah my stepdad has been breaking me down mentally for so long. I am not the type that fishes or hunts, so I instead choose the musical life, but my step dad doesn't know how to see how much he hurts me by saying I am not a real man. I know it is not a big deal to most, but my father walked out on us for drugs and a girl he could have sex with. He didnt ever teach me how to fish or how to catch, I learned what I know from my mother and myself. So if my stepdad was just able to see the hard life I have been through, maybe he would know not to mess with my head. I understand, too, how others are more unfortunately placed with their step parents, but I am fed up with this bull******** so I have decided to either get the hell out of here, or just end it all.

**Guest** · 12-29-2019, 01:17 PM

It's not that I totaly hate my stepdad I just dislike the things he does sometimes like when my siblings cry he yells at me when most of the time I dont even do anything he just takes my little brother out of the room and makes him sit on the couch alone by himself and leaves me and my sister here in my room and another problem is when they cry he gets so aggravated to the point where he just shouts and yells at me I mean there babys yea there 2 and 3 turning on 3 and 4 but come on there still little kids and they need patience he just cant come snatch them away and throw them on the couch and then come back yell at me and go and tell my mom the "bad things" ive done when I didnt even do anything he doesnt even give me time to talk he just jumps to conclusions and say that I need to stop aggravating them and dont give them stuff without "my permission" like today my brotjer wanted some cereal and I said no so he started crying like he always does and then my stepdad came in my room yelling at him saying he needs to shut up and stuff then he came to ME saying that "you didnt hear me when I called you" so I said "no I didnt" (because I didn't) and then he raises his voice and says "yes you did" and then he started cursing me out like he always does saying I need to stop doimg that stupid sh*t and that I'm slower than the babies and he didnt even believe me when I said my brother got the cereal *in which he did* but he still doesn't believe me thats why I spend most of my time in my bed crying because of how I feel that he just wants me gone like "bye little girl we dont need her anymore" when I try everything I can to leave him and my mom alone yea its hard watching 2 babies at the age of 12 but I can manage it if he would stay out of my ear about me aggravating them all the time I love my stepdad sometimes and I dont want nothing to happen to him I just wish he would stop being so mean sometimes thanks for listening bye

**Guest** · 01-08-2020, 06:51 PM

I know that mine isn’t as bad as others but my step dad so annoying won’t leave me little brother alone and he slaps us. He barges into my room without knocking or how he touches personal stuff an my mom doesn’t seem notice. I know my mom is in love with him.

**Guest** · 01-14-2020, 08:19 PM

I hate my step dad he always thinks he can be the boss of me but he is not I hate it idk what to do

**Guest** · 01-18-2020, 09:41 AM

My stepdad is emotionally abusive and threatened to kill me, or sometimes threatens to bash my head against the wall until there's blood on it. VERY SCARED FOR MY LIFE. And so ********ing tired of the abuse. What should I do?

**Guest** · 01-29-2020, 08:03 AM

My stepdad is awful as well. My parents got divorced when I was 3 (right now I’m 15) and he always was just so rude. I remember when I was 13 and he started screaming at me because I was upset that he ate all my bagels my mom bought for me. I was also sitting at the counter and my mom told me I was with her that weekend, and he rolled his eyes and said “Oh Gosh”. And then he started making up lies about me and told them to my mom. He said something like I strangled my brother, which I said wasn’t true. My mom seemed to believe me. She has caught him being mean to me many times, but he doesn’t stop. I don’t know what to do, I can’t take him anymore.

**Guest** · 02-02-2020, 09:06 PM

I hate my stepdad too he tries to act like my dad and he's not and he's a ********ing pervert and child molester he's ********ing disgusting and makes me feel super ********ing unsafe and my mom doesn't give a ******** because she "loves him" but he's a sick ******** and I think I'm going to**** and he's a cheater he cheated on my mom and called it a "sexual addiction" then he yelled at me when I got mad at him for calling him out on his ********

**Guest** · 02-06-2020, 05:16 PM

My stepdad is so annoying I’m 11 right now and he gets on my nerves my mom grounded me for 2 weeks and he come out of nowhere and says it should be two months and I got all a’s and b’s as a grade and one C and now he’s going crazy like I wish he would just disappear and leave me alone for ONCE

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