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  • #76
    My stepdad has a big mouth
    and he always snitches on my sisters

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    • ccsmod15
      ccsmod15 commented
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      Hi there,

      We're sorry to hear that you're having some problems with your stepdad. We'd like to see how we could help you explore your options. The best way to do that is if you give us a call at 1-800-RUNAWAY. Or you can use our chat option on the main page of our website. Hope to hear from you soon.

      Best,
      ​​​​​​​NRS

  • #77
    My Step dad is the worst. This morning my step dad grabbed me by the jaw and lifted me up then shoved me to the ground and slapped me I hated him for a long time he also not too long ago grabbed me by my neck and lifted me up I almost suffocated I had no air I almost died. I don't understand why my mother never left him it makes no sense. He is a child abuser

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    • ccsmod6
      ccsmod6 commented
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      Hello and thank you for reaching out to the National Runaway Safeline. The way your step dad is treating you is wildly inappropriate and definitely, as you say, abusive. It is not okay for him to physically attack you in any capacity and what you’ve described is serious. It might be a good idea for you to consider filing an abuse report with the CPS or DCFS agency in your state. If you want to know more about the reporting process or what might happen, please do not hesitate to call the National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-422-4453. They can provide you with information about abuse reporting. We can also help you file an abuse report if you want to. You can give us a call to do that or to talk more about what is going on and how we can help you by calling us on our 24/7 hotline 1-800-786-2929 or by chatting us at 1800runaway.org. The situation that you are in sounds dangerous and we would be happy to help you figure out a safe place to go. If you are in immediate physical danger, please call 911.

      Take care,
      NRS

  • #78
    I hate my stepdad he always yelling and he super mean I feel like I don’t belong I uset have anything I want now since he came I don’t have nothing he say I’m ungrateful moth********er but I don’t believe him.

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    • ccsmod7
      ccsmod7 commented
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      Hi there, thanks for reaching out today. Sounds like your stepdad is saying some really hurtful things to you and it's making you feel like you do not belong. That cannot be easy to deal with. Here at NRS, we truly want to be a support for you during this difficult time.

      If you haven't, you might tell your mom if she is in the picture or any supportive adult in your life what is going on. It could help to have another adult advocate for you and intervene. You deserve to have your feelings heard and to be treated with basic human dignity.

      You mentioned experiencing emotional abuse which may be reportable against your stepdad. Please keep in mind you by no means deserve any type of abuse, emotional or otherwise. Unfortunately, emotional abuse is often harder to provide evidence for compared to physical abuse which is often what CPS relies on when conducting an abuse investigation. That said, we can’t be 100% sure what the outcome will be if your local CPS decides to open a case based on what you share. Sometimes CPS decides to remove minors from the home and other times they offer services such as family counseling or mediation instead. The only way to know the outcome might be to reach out to them directly and if you’re ready to do that we are here to help you through that process. Reaching out to Child Help USA at 1-800-422-4453 or www.childhelp.org may help to get a better understanding of what may happen before and after a report is made.

      We hope this helps. Please reach out if we can offer any further support.

      Be safe,

      NRS

  • #79
    my mom recently got remarried after my dad passed away. my stepdad started out as the most awesome dad ever. lately, he’s been bugging me, calling me names, etc, and i’ve told him to stop, yet he doesn’t. my mom doesn’t do anything about it or just tells me to stop being such a whiny kid. it’s really annoying.

    at this point, i don’t want anything to do with my stepdad. he and my mom have been arguing more and more lately, and it’s affecting me.

    tonight, they were arguing over something. he’d been on the phone for nearly two hours, which, the reason why is a bit understandable. i’m siding with my mom though.

    he called her some pretty awful names, and called her drunk (when she’s not), a **********, etc,etc. he threatened to divorce her and told her “good luck on being a single mom”. there was some other stuff also. i really don’t want to talk to him anymore.

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    • ccsmod9
      ccsmod9 commented
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      You mentioned experiencing emotional abuse which may be reportable against your stepfather. Please keep in mind you by no means deserve any type of abuse, emotional or otherwise. Unfortunately, emotional abuse is often harder to provide evidence for compared to physical abuse which is often what CPS relies on when conducting an abuse investigation. That said, we can’t be 100% sure what the outcome will be if your local CPS decides to open a case based on what you share. Sometimes CPS decides to remove minors from the home and other times they offer services such as family counseling or mediation instead. The only way to know the outcome might be to reach out to them directly and if you’re ready to do that we are here to help you through that process. Reaching out to Child Help USA at 1-800-422-4453 or www.childhelp.org may help to get a better understanding of what may happen before and after a report is made.
      We hope this helps. Please reach out if we can offer any further support.
      Be safe,
      NRS

  • #80
    My stepdad smokes he drinks he is a alcoholic he's arrogent and yells my mom dosent do anything one time he assulted her by throwing a bag of beer fottles at her we callled the police he never went to jail the police said get councling they never did and theyre still together

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    • ccsmod6
      ccsmod6 commented
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      Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. We are sorry that your home life doesn’t feel safe for you. Your step-father seems like a very scary person, and it’s understandable that you want get away from him. If you ever feel like you are in immediate danger call 911. We can look for shelters or other crisis resources in your local area if you ever feel like you can’t stay at home, or we can talk about other places you might be able to stay. It seems like it can get very heated between your parents, maybe to a point that is inappropriate. You could call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at is 1-800-799-7233. They are experts on in handling and they might be able to offer you advice within your situation. If you want to talk more about your situation and what options you have or if you have any other questions please feel free to call us at 1-800-786-2929 we are 24/7.

      Take care,
      NRS

  • #81
    I honestly hate my stepdad too. There are times when he's okay, and things are good, and we all get along, but more often than not he's being a dick, and I'm over it. He's such a selfish prick and has his head so far up his ass to the point where it's unbearable. My mom rants to me about all the bs he does, and he says things that hurt everyone around him, but then when you say something that even slightly hurts his "feelings" without meaning to, he can get all butthurt about it. To him, he's the ONLY thing that matters, the universe revolves around. THIS MAN - sorry, child - HAS A KID WITH MY MOTHER. Once you have a child, your life is no longer about just you. Hate to burst his bubble. If you want the truth, I never expected him to treat me like I was his kid. I could smell the bs when my mom started dating him. I knew he hated me, and he still does. He criticises everything I do, or say, or whatever. I'm in 4h and I show rabbits and beef, and he complains about that, even though I PAY for MY own animals and ALL of their expenses. I take care of them before I sit down to do my homework, or eat dinner. HE does not have to pay for them, HE does not have to care for them. So what gives him the ********ing right to complain? I wish I had the confidence to tell him straight up how things should be but, I'll hear about it from my mom. In the end, it's not worth my energy, anyway because he doesn't listen to anyone, but yet he expects EVERYONE to listen to him. I don't know, I'm just so sick of his utter bull********. And he's egotistical, and narcissistic, and rude, and I'm over it. I want my mom to leave him, and that's not me wanting things to be my way, or whatever, he's just so toxic and not good for my mom or my half sister. He's emotionally abusive, and I don't understand how my mom is okay with that. I wouldn't put up with that. My mom, half sister and I deserve more respect than that. He wants us to respect him even though he literally treats us like ********?! I don't think so! Well, I do think so because I'm so used to faking it for everyone, even though it may not be worth it. For example, he literally said to me mom "...There are days when I don't even want to come home... I don't want to ruin [Half-sister's name]'s life, but —" THEN ********ING LEAVE. SHE WILL BE SO MUCH BETTER OFF WITHOUT YOU AND YOUR TOXICITY!!!!! I don't know. I know that I can't change anything, but it felt good to type this rant. Thank you to anyone who read all the way through.

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    • ccsmod0
      ccsmod0 commented
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      Hello, thank you for sharing a bit of what has been going on. It sounds like you really are at your wits end with how to cope with living with your step-father. We are glad that you were able to find some relief with posting this bulletin. Often times being able to talk to others about issues in our live can make dealing with them a lot easier, it can even help you think of new solutions not previously thought of. If you would like to talk more about your situation please feel free to give us a call anytime. 1-800-786-2929.
      Best wishes,
      NRS
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