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**Guest** · 02-20-2019, 11:29 AM

You have no idea how much I despise my stepdad. He emotionally and verbally abuse my sister and I. Like today, my mom and I was just laughing in the living room and he comes from the kitchen and says what are you doing to make her laugh like that to my mom about me. And we stopped laughing obviously and then he said “yeah keep laughing you little btch”. As a person that does not cuss, I find it very offensive for my own stepdad to say that to me. And this is not the first time, he said the f word and many other forms of disses to me. He doesn’t get along with my moms half of the family but he forces to be nice to his side of the family. He doesn’t allow my mom to go anywhere alone, cuz he thinks she’s going to have sex with a man every chance she gets. He thinks we’re always lying to him no matter what. I’ve lived with him for 10 years now. I’m 17 and I know I can’t afford to live by myself even after I turn 18. But I really wish somehow I can go live somewhere else with just my mom and sister. My sister is 27 so once she settles and get a house, I’m gonna ask her if I can live with her and go to college. I feel bad for my mom I can’t take her with me but I really can’t stand him. But I think this would be best for everyone’s physical health and mental health. But come on, all I did was laugh. And he’s upset about that? I’m crying almost everyday because of how awful of a person he is.

**Guest** · 02-21-2019, 11:58 AM

My stepdad made me cry and he hit me in the head with a glass bowl and i was bleeding and he pushed me down the stairs and punched me multiple times and i get weaker and weaker cause he beats me. im only 12 years old.He made me stand outside with a sign rape me im a s*ut and i should just die.And i ran away for one night and fell asleep at the park.I just cant..Deal with him.He blames me for everything too and i get in trouble );

**Guest** · 02-23-2019, 01:36 PM

I hate my stepfather. He married my mother to receive legal status here in the U.S. He's been abusive to my mother (hitting her aggresively on two occasions) but because they have 2 daughters(my younger sisters), she never wanted to file a report against him in fear he'd get deported. He's been in my life since I was four but when they got married, his true colors came out. He became cold with my mother and me and has stated on various occasions that he doesn't care if we starve (since he cooks). I am 20 now and still live at home and my stepdad always makes a lot of food but whenever I have a plate, he complains to my mother so I only eat one meal a day in my house but now I'm pregnant and I'm worried about my baby. I don't know what to do, I want to move out but I don't want to leave my mom here alone but I've literally had to live unhappy in my house for 16 years. Part of me wants to call immigration because he married my mom with false intentions but he's used her to obtain up to Residency and he'd take the test to become a citizen but he's not book smart(this is a fact, his parents paid his teachers to pass him to the next grade all of high school, he's said so himself). I grew up without my father so part of me could never be the reason he gets deported because I couldn't do that to my sisters. I've been miserable in my own house since I was at least 14 and I even considered living in my car because I feel judged here 24/7, everything I do gets a complaint from him to my mother. I never wanted to hate, that's a strong word but I hate him more than anything in the world. I was just a kid when he married my mom, I don't know what I did to him to treat me this way, I think he wishes I never existed so it'd be just the 4 of them. Please help me, I don't what to do, I just need someone to listen and believe me.

**Guest** · 02-24-2019, 02:50 PM

I do too , he annoys THE CRAP OUT OF ME , he acts like a child , he makes up words for food , and my mom likes it , hes so lazy he never takes stairs , and he thinks money is going to make him fit it when all he can get is a thank you, he makes my life so hard

**Guest** · 03-05-2019, 12:33 AM

my Name is Reaghan and I hate my stb stepdad Spencer. He lives in this trashy trailer with his gay son. We moved in with them bc my Moms house was taken back by the bank. I can’t stamd this. We moved so far away I don’t see my dad much.

**Guest** · 03-12-2019, 10:08 AM

He's so mean and annoying. My mom tells me that there are people with worse stepdads but still. Why is it okay for my stepdad to treat me and his own son (my brother which is 10 years old) horrible. I'm a 14 year old girl and everyone has told me well it's a teenager thing. Teens always hate their stepdads. Well come be in my shoes for a week. He has gotten into my face before and says horrible mean things to me to make it to were I hate my life. Since I was 11 I've hated him. He controls my life, doesn't knock half the time, goes threw all my things, and way more. I've vented to my mom a million times about him and she tells me "oh I'll talk to him" well it's either she never does or it gets worse and he comes to me and say "Wow why did you tell your mom?"And when he says mean things to me in front of people and especially my mom she doesn't do anything. She's always on his side no matter what. I've gone threw severe depression for the past 3 years to where I almost killed myself a coupe times but I can't because all I think about is my brother. He'll have a way worse life without me and I also think about my friends, my mom, other family members and my boyfriend. It'll be horrible pain for all them because I'm very close to all them. My real dad wants nothing to do with me only meet him twice in 14 years and recently Something happened at home cps came and talked to cops but nothing happened to my stepdad or me. All that happened was it got me into a lot of trouble and got pulled out of school and currently home-schooled. And it was exactly about him and me trying to go away and be with my dad and have a decent life (which we found out my dad is currently under house arrest for drinking and driving.) My brother yesterday told me he wanted to kill himself and that he was unhappy because of his dad (which is my stepdad). It has gotten to the point my boyfriend has almost hired someone to get my stepdad under control and put him into his place. And my own guy friend to do the same as my boyfriend. My friends and many of my family members have witnessed mean rude things being said to me to where my friends don't even want to come over and hangout. I don't know what to do anymore for me and my brother. I don't want him to go threw depression like I did and go threw pain and mean things from his dad like I did. I want better for him than what I had.

**Guest** · 03-17-2019, 01:45 PM

My stepdad is so annoying, he accuses me of the silliest things (like taking a chocolate bar!) he also shout at me for buying sweets with MY OWN money! It’s my money! My dad is the best thing in my life and he cannot substitute him, I only see my dad twice a week but he knows I love him. Sometimes Ian ish I saw my stepdad twice a week! My mum and I were perfectly happy on our own before she married him! He can be alright sometimes but he just does things to trigger my hormones, I’m nearly 13, and I can’t invite my mates round without him swearing, smoking or intruding into MY time and MY personal space!

**Guest** · 04-03-2019, 09:52 PM

My stepdad is a an alcoholic once he gets drinking how won’t quit. Every time he drinks he fights with my mom and is sometimes a jerk to me. Like tonight I saw my mom crying so I went to check on her and was looking at her face and he shoved me away and told me to get away from her. When he pushed me I shoved his hand away and told him not to touch me and he went all ballistic yelling and fighting with me. He’s arguing over our mechanics girlfriend who is total rude to my mother and I like she made my mom cry and called me a ********** and makes us feel uncomfortable in our house. Like he was siding with the mechanic saying we should be nicer but I mean we have been but everything she does gets overlooked and I’m really close to beating the crap Out of her. My life is aready complicated enough I’m fighting depression, anxiety, I’m trying to fight an eating disorder so all in all I’m losing my cool. My mom works for the family company, but if we left she wouldn’t have a job I’m 17 but also homeschooled and I go to a really good high school program through a university. I don’t know what to do I know I hate it here and my mom loves him but she’s so tired of the fighting I mean I’m on the whole other end of the house and I can hear him yelling. I’m behind and I’m worried if we leave I have to lose all that’s ive worked hard for on school but I want my mom safe. Am I overreacting?

**Guest** · 04-18-2019, 10:58 AM

I feel the same I will always hate my step dad because how he treats me

**Guest** · 04-19-2019, 07:25 PM

I've always been a happy kid, but there are some people in this world who deserve karma. That is, some of the rude people who are SUPPOSABLY in my family. My stepdad.

My mom divorced my dad because he always smoked and drank. He still does to this day. Then, my mom got together with my stepdad. My dad told me that one time, he put a hole in my stepdad's tire. My dad lost his driver's licence because of this, but it was WORTH IT. >:-) (this was a long time ago, by the way.)

Since my mom and stepdad got together, I have two new stepsiblings who are really cool. The only person that I have a problem with is my stepdad.

He's always been annoying and rude. Sometimes, he's rude for no reason. Him and my mom argue a lot, so WHY CAN'T THEY JUST BREAK UP ALREADY?!??!! IF YOU'RE TIRED OF THE SAME CRAP EVERYDAY, THEN JUST GET THE HELL OUT OF MY FAMILY!!!!

Around last year, I finally noticed how he clears his throat all the time. It's preventing me from doing anything without wanting to bang my head against the wall. Just a note, I have Asperger's Syndrome, which is a type of autism. It makes me more emotional and I have some issues. When I look at an image on my phone, I'm constantly worrying that he's gonna clear his throat and make the situation more cringey. This ******** prevents me from doing ANYTHING. AND I'M SICK AND TIRED OF IT!!!!

Sometimes he tries to act all cool, then later he starts being an asshole for no reason. The worst part is, I've talked to him about his chronic condition, and he just said, "Uhh, you do crap that annoys me all the time, so I can do whatever I want!" That's basically what he said.

Currently, I'm 13 and him and my mom got married. Great. Just ********ing excellent.

All this annoying crap makes me constantly not want to do activities on my phone with my online friends, and I can't even feel the freedom to look up whatever I want with this crap happening! He needs to burn in hell. I've tried talking about it, but I'm scared that people aren't going to understand.

Sorry for cussing. I just need to get rid of one of the demons inside of my head. There's still tons more, but that's progress.

**Guest** · 04-20-2019, 10:42 AM

i hate my step dad, he treats me differently than my mom. he is really nice to my mom. but when my mom is not there, all he care about is himself and yell at my face. he never curse in front of my mom, but he curse at my face, and he even said he did everything for me and i just get mad and cry like a baby even though he gave me nothing, all of them is from my mom.

**Guest** · 04-20-2019, 05:50 PM

My parents act like perfect christian parents but im so depressed and my mom flat out ignores it while my stepdad and I don't even want to acknowledge each other anymore and when we do he acts all high and mighty even though hes mean and oblivious. My stepdad acts as if im such a horrible child and he tells me to chill or stop having an attuid anytime i talk and he even told me to stop reading fiction books and read selfhelp books instead its gotten to the point where i cant even stand being near him anyone and he frustrates me so much and when I tell him i dislike church he yells at me and takes my phone or he scolfs or tells me i have an attuide even if i tell him my feelings as kindly as possible and its frustrating because he calls himself my dad which he will never be.and im just so done and tired of him. I know that before he married my mom he did drugs and left his family and I hate how nowadays hes like ohhhhh people who do that are awful and he remarks about how great he is... Or when my school called the police to my house because I useto cut my parents went crazy my mom looked at me with eyes made out of ice and refused to talk to me and my stepdad remarked that i was insane and had demons inside me and how I wasnt (insert my name) and he just screamed and screamed and said I cant go to my grandmas when I said I coulnt live here anyone and I ran to my room and sobed and I just cant anyone... I love my mom but I cant deal with mystepdad anymore he said my depression is just demons and that I over react and when i cry or sad he/my mom ingores me or yells at me to stop...

**Guest** · 04-22-2019, 10:41 PM

I get you.. my step dad is soooooo annoying as well.. he always calls my mom a cheater and when he was mad at her e salads her a ********** and ***** and every time I try to tell my family he or my mom some how find out and one time he said "If you tell any of your family members we'll send you to a psych ward" this scares me because I was once suicidal.. used to cut myself but that was 3 years ago so I'm not that worried about it... and my stepdad has grabbed me by the hair and thrown me and left bruises on my thighs.. he also got pissed off at my sister and punched her in the head and than she started crying.. plz help me find a way out of here.

**Guest** · 04-30-2019, 10:47 PM

i hate my stepdad, hes mentally abusing . Hes so annoying that he even makes his own daughter have a panic attack . He even called her a $#**$ and me and my sister a ********** . He called my mom a ********ing moron, my mom is married to a ********ing psycho. he used to do drugs , and so did my stepsisters mom. He stopped , but her mom did not . my mom is hypnotized by him every time this happens my mom does nothing , and i feel the blame for it . idk why , but i just do. it gets really bad and i start to feel dizzy and i do not know what is happening. one time my mom and my stepdad were on the same side and they kicked me out of the house , i had to live with my dad for awhile. i get really sad and start crying. sometimes i feel i cant take it anymore , and i want to kill myself and i jus think its best for everyone including me ,but then i realize that its not it will only make it worse . thanks for listening usually no one does.

**Guest** · 05-04-2019, 09:26 PM

i can’t stand my step dad. so here’s some background. i’m fourteen and i have two siblings. my sister who is sixteen and my brother who is twenty one. both of them are my half siblings. my sister and i share a dad but have different moms. my brother and i share a mom and have different dads. my brothers dad is named keith. and he left my mom and my brother when my brother was a baby. my mom would always talk about how much she hated him and all of that. my parents have always had problems. my mom and dad were always fighting and i don’t have very good memories from my childhood. my parents drank a lot. when i was about 11 my dads drinking got a lot worse to the point where he would yell and throw things. he never hurt me or my mom. he suspected that my mom was cheating on him with keith. my brother was in juvie at the time so my mom and keith were talking a lot. they split up when i was around 12. my brother was out of juvie and was living with my mom he brought his girlfriend. he had dropped out of school. my dad was living with his parents out of town and i only saw him on the weekends. my brother threw parties very often. one night keith comes to the party. he seemed alright but i didn’t get why he was there. at the end of the night i made him a bed on the couch only to find him sleeping in my moms bed with her. soon after he moved in with his son jonah. in august of 2017 ( i was 12) i experienced a very traumatic event. my whole family brushed it off like it was nothing. i wasn’t okay. i’m still not okay. i don’t trust my mom to be able to keep me safe. when i was young (like 4-

my cousin who was my age would molest me and my sister whenever we spent the night. one time my mom caught him undressing me and trying to have sex with me. i recently found out she knew the whole time. my dad had no idea. my sister and i told him last year. he was livid. she said she never did anything because she didn’t want to upset the family or cause drama and it was really no big deal. i still have a hard time being intimate with men and developed an eating disorder last year. well anyway back to my step dad. he is so childish. he is unemployed and a felon. he is rude and selfish and a pig. i can’t stand him. he talks about me behind my back and insults me to my face. he says my singing makes his ears bleed and that my mom would be better off without me. ive tried talking to my mom about it but she tells me i need to get over it and be happy for her. i don’t feel like she needs me. i’m not happy. i haven’t been happy for years. i lash out and do stupid things from anger. about a year ago my mom and my step dad moved to california. i was so hurt and angry. my mom never even said goodbye. i didn’t talk to her for months and keith says that was the best time of his life. he blames my mom for everything. he sold his truck in order to move and somehow it’s my moms fault. i hate how he talks to her sometimes. he never lets just me an her do something. once i had to live with my mom because of issues with my dad and i wanted to ask her advice on the situation. i asked keith for permission to talk to her and he said yes. i go to talk to her and keith just walks in the room sits down and says he has been listening and has advice for me. i was so mad. i appreciate he wants to help but i didn’t want his advice. he is always rude to me and his son says he wants me dead. i told my my i used to self harm and was close to relapsing. she said she’d ground me and make my life a living hell if i did. once i had to have her drive me to a friends house because she had taken a bunch of pills and would have died. keith constantly leaves for days at a time doing god knows what. i ran off after trying to talk to my mom and her ignoring me. i don’t know what to do or where to go. i’m happy for her but does she have to be happy at my expense?

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