I hate my stepdad

I hate my stepdad, I don't think my mom notices but he is such a smart alike and he has totally changed my mom, my mom used to let me do anything but now she has all these restrictions on my phone and stuff like that, my stepdad is also always joining in conversations me and my mom are having and totally being rude to me, my mom doesn't even care tho, it's making me wonder if she even cares about how he treats me. Well I hope your guys lives are better than mine, have a nice day.

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Hello There,
Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you may be experiencing a frustrating situation. You may want to talk with a school counselor or a trusted adult about what is going on.
If you would like to talk more about your situation please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and provide support to you. Best of luck!
NRS

I haré my step das so much i cant look ay him my mom and him “brote up”UGH They still kiss and hoy prívate conversations UGHHHHH

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Hi there,

Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

We hope to hear from you soon.
Be safe, NRS

I hate my stepdad sometimes i wish i could run away but i havent because i love my mom so much its like hes brainwashing her and making her agree on things shes nnever agreed with before i just want him out my life and i dont think our relationship can ever be repaired its a bitter sweet type love or its just toxic in general.sorry for the grammar mistakes had to write this fast because he watches everything i do.

everyday i crawl in my closet and cry and scream and i am so upset and sick and tired of having to do this its to the point i cry soo much i throw up and everytime i tell my mom how i feel she shuts it down with a "thats mean and your being over dramatic so stop crying" and im always with buim cause she works all the time so its worst because i can cut our tension with a butter knife.

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Hi there,

We are really glad that you found the NRS website and decided to reach out. Home is supposed to be somewhere safe and it sounds like your step dad is making home a dangerous environment. It is not okay for him to be making any sort of threat directed toward you.

You do have the right to report this incident. A social worker will likely come out to your house to talk to you and everyone else in the household.We can not say for sure what the outcome will be as it is up to the discretion of the social worker. Reporting it could lead to an intervention like counseling or parenting classes which can help to make home more comfortable for you. You can contact the national child abuse hotline for support in this process and more information at 1-800-422-4453 or https://www.childhelp.org/hotline/ .

We want to help you figure out your next steps. You do no have to make these decisions alone and we are here 24/7 to listen and help. Please do not hesitate to reach out by phone (1-800-786-2929) or via online chat services at (1800runaway.org).

Be safe,
NRS

my stepdad threaten to kill me over something petty so I am thinking about reporting him but if I do report him they are going to lie and say that they did not say it and make it a false hotline report

Omg that is literally the same thing for me. Im 13 too and just can't wait to leave my house

I feel ya

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Thank you for reaching out to the National Runaway Safeline. It is frustrating when you thought you liked someone new in your life and then the relationship changes.

There are ways to try to better relationships like trying family counseling. Perhaps he would be open to going to some sort of therapy with you. Sometimes just suggesting that is a good way to signal that you know that there is a communication problem and you want to make an effort to fix it. Or perhaps there is another way to open the door to communication rather than shutting the door with directly saying you don’t like him. There certainly seems to be a glimmer of hope if you originally did have a good relationship. A psychologist might be able to get to the reason why it changed. If not counseling you could try any idea that includes trying to better improve your communication while doing an activity like fishing together. Just throwing in the idea of needing to bettering the relationship or bettering communication is a strong hint that something isn’t going well and you would like it to change which is a positive way to try to address it because it seems like you do want a way to get it out there.

Again, we are glad that you reached out to us. It takes a lot to ask for help and you are trying to figure out your options which is really good to see. If you would like to talk more about your situation please feel that you can call us at the National Runaway Safeline 24/7 at 1-800-RUNAWAY or at our web site 1800RUNAWAY.org for a live chat.

Sometimes I just want to run away because of my stepdad I have thought about it here lately and every time we argue we get in screaming matches and I used to like him a lot before my mom dated him he was nice before but now he is just a jerk I have really nothing to do with him only when he is being nice he is either around people and I just don’t like him anymore how do I tell him I don’t like him ?

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Hi there,
Thank you for contacting us at the National Runaway Safeline. It takes great courage to reach out for help and we are glad that you decided to reach out for help.

We are sorry to hear that you are having a hard time with your step dad. If your safety is ever at risk you can call 911. If you are being abused in anyway that is not your fault and you can consider filing an abuse report. You can call Child Help USA at 1-800-422-4453 and they can help provide you information on filing an abuse report. Talking to other people you trust like family members, friends and school teachers or counselors can be helpful as well.

If you chose you can contact us at our 24 hour confidential hotline at 1-800-786-2929 and we can listen to you, help explore your options and provide any resources.

You are acting strong by reaching out for help. We wish you the best and hope to hear from you soon.

Best
NRS

I hate my step dad so much he does really bad things I can tell you is trying to replace my real dad I really feel like ******** around him

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Hey there,

Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. It must be really hard to live in a home with so much tension. Running away is a big decision and it can be very stressful to figure out what you want to do. If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

Stay safe,
NRS

I hate my step dad and want to run away