Isolation, loneliness and indecent exposure

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My mom has always put us through a lot. She is an alcoholic and clearly an addict of s** she recently moved us to an "off the grid" location as she calls it and we are very secluded or isolated. My dad and his side of the family have tried ever since we were real young to get us out of her craziness and she has always lied her way out of it. She has mentally ruined me and my brother and we both get so frustrated that we can't communicate and have been scarred by things witnessed while she was drunk. Every time we visit our grandma and dads side of the family we have all the things we need in a normal life. Beds, school, people, general happiness and interaction, and cooked meals. She often gets drunk in Texas where she wasn't supposed to move to and did it behind courts backs and ours. We cry and get severely depressed after we have to leave our grandmas and while we live in Texas. When she gets drunk she has s** or says very disturbing stuff over the phone that I have recorded in hopes to get me out. I have to go back this Sunday and we tried to go to court 2 days ago and failed my dad and is are all frustrated and depressed and they are so worried for us. Me and my brother can't stand another year in isolation and loneliness disturbing sexual exposure and scary drunken moments. She is rarely home and we rarely do anything and I know even reporting this she will just straighten up and act like a good mom and victimize her self and not will grow up with no happy life and severe mental abuse and damage with isolation and loneliness. When. I tell her these things she never cares. I even had a few friends for awhile till they bullied me and made my depression get to a suicidal stage and she had sex while they were over making my last year in my class of 12 people miserable. I can't even list all the sh** she's done to me and my brother but I want out now I want to live with my grandma and go to school make friends and pursue my dreams to be a pilot. I am worried for me and my brother indeed not this k we can live 4-5 more years of seclusion a person or a group cannot survive that long in the woods lonely with no friends. Please help us with our court case we need to get out of there.

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Hey there,
Thank you so much for reaching out to us. We are sorry for your current situation. You and your brother do not deserve to have to experience such treatment. It is good that your father is aware of your difficulties and is trying to improve things for you.

It sounds like you have already tried Child Protective Services, but they did not do their job in removing you, were so sorry that happened. If your dad is trying to get custody of you he may already have a lawyer, but you mention that your mother has moved you and your brother to Texas. Since these laws change from state to state maybe getting some legal advice from a Texas lawyer may help. If you call into our safeline or use our chat service, we can help you find those resources. They should be able to tell you what your options are.

Thank you again for reaching out to us. It takes a lot to ask for help and you are trying to figure out your options which is really good to see. If you would like to talk further about your situation, please do not hesitate to call or chat with us.
Stay safe, NRS