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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Be safe,

    NRS

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    Same. My mom always hate me except my little brother. When I couldn’t solve math problems, she punch me so hardly. I’m crying like whole days. My mom doesn’t make food for me. My mom never make food for me so, Im eating snacks from school. I know how you feel!! . If you really really really need someone. Help, why don’t you talk to your BFF? If you don’t have any friends that can trust you, tell to your dad or grandparents? It okay to cry everyday! I’m crying every every day!! If you feel sad, you can hug with your stuffed animals too! That work very good! Stuffed animals makes me happy

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  • ccsmod13
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    Hi, we are glad you reached out to us for help. There are certainly a lot of stressful things going on for you right now with your parents and in the house. It sounds very discouraging and relentlessly overwhelming to only be spoken to about chores, and what they think you have done wrong AND not being recognized for your achievements at school.

    You mentioned that there has been hardly been any physical abuse but it has happened. You deserve to be in an environment that is totally safe and with zero physical (or mental) abuse. It is not ok for you to be hurt physically by your parents ever for any reason. It is not ok that you are singled out and made fun of by your parents for your school interests and activities. It is really amazing you have maintained being very involved at school with the negative attitude from your parents and the added chores and sibling responsibilities.

    There are some resources available to help you and some options for you to consider that might make your situation better. We would like to get more specific details from you so we can help you engage those resources and come up with a plan and some strategies for improving your home life. We are a non-directive agency, that means we will help you see and understand all your options and develop a plan that works and feels right for you. We can also help you along the way to make sure things are working out the way you want and need.

    We would like to talk with you more and get you the help you need and deserve. You can reach out to us for a chat through our website or call us on our crisis hotline at (800) RUNAWAY. Both are available 24/7 and both are completely confidential.

    We hope to hear from you soon and that you get some relief knowing that we are here for you anytime. Good luck.

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    I’m not sure if my family loves me anymore.They only speak to me if they need something from me most days. Since my brothers where born my responsibility and chores rose while my grades dropped, it seems like they don’t love me like before. I hardly have any time to do my home work but when I tell them what wrong and why can’t I do so many chores they yell at me and say I am just being lazy. It feels like they treat me like kids at school do. I just want my parents back I am not jealous of my baby brothers I love them but why are my parents acting this way.I’ve gotten my grades steady now but it feels like if they could get rid of me they would but that would mean them losing my other siblings and they love them not me. They always blame me for everything even if I wasn’t even in the room or house when it happened or they didn’t tell me ,like “why didn’t you set alarm for your sister field trip”(they never even told me she had a field trip or the time) or “why didn’t you put the ice in the bottles”(even though I didn’t pack the bottle) They usually would hardly yell at me but now they always do, and they have so much pride they won’t even acknowledge when they do do something wrong to me but when they always apologized to my siblings when they do something wrong. And it hurts.
    I don’t know what to do
    when I say when they are wrong about what they say about me they yell that I am a selfish brat and a liars and “plain dumb” and that I never do anything; even though I do everything . They hardly ever hurt me physically but it has happened. When they expect me to do something without telling me they yell at me and say I should of known and did not need to be told. Why I am I supposed to know something that they never told me.
    It also feels like they don’t let me live up to what I am cable of .I am in all honors, very athletic, and am good at art and know how to read music. If they gave me the chance I feel like I can be so much more than I am. At home they always make fun of me or what actives I do school, or that I hardly have any friends, they don’t even do this to anyone in the family but me. And sometimes it just makes me want to cry.
    At school I hardly have any friends but I am very involved; I am a orientation leader, I help in the cafeteria and I am in yearbook and I plan to try for science olympiads but I am very shy and people call me mute and other meaner names that I won’t write. This might be because I am so quiet that everyone thinks they can just poke at me.

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,

    Thank you so much for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are going through a difficult time and we want you to know that you are not alone.

    It is understandable to be upset about this situation, and we are sorry you are going through this. One option may be to figure out why you are unable to finish your homework on the days your mom would like you too. You could also let your mom know that her yelling at you is affecting you negatively. If you are struggling to complete assignments it may be a good idea to talk to a teacher or a school counselor about what is going on.

    We hope that this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any more questions or would like to explore more options please give us a call. We are available 24/7 to listen and to provide support. Best of luck!
    NRS

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    my mom always screams at me for not doing homework on the earliest days of school one day i tried asking her for something to finish one of the late ones then she started yelling at me and took away phone privalieges and i am an introvert and i use the phone because i dont wanna find friends offline what do i do do i stand up for myself or do something and this from my computer

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  • ccsmod15
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    Thanks for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. You made a great first step to finding the help that you may need. It sounds like you are going through a lot and the people around you are not being supportive. You deserve to be treated with respect, to experience acceptance and to feel safe.

    We want you to know that you are strong for having gone through so much already. It is perfectly okay to deviate from what others or the common population believe to be “normal”. You’re bravery and resilience is so admirable. You are so strong for having gone through so much without having the acceptance that you do deserve for just being you. Remember that you are not alone. If you ever want to talk more about what you are experiencing or get additional support we are here 24/7 at 1800-RUNAWAY or our live chat service. The GLBT National Hotline at 1888-843-4564 is another option to gain great support from those that are familiar with the issues and experiences of those that are also a part of the LGBTQ community. You can access their website link bellow to utilize all the other possibly useful resources they have to offer: http://www.glbthotline.org/

    You mentioned that you were considering the options that may be best for you. By all means, if you do fear for your safety either now or in the future, do not hesitate to take the necessary steps to regain your safety. This may mean calling the authorities or possibly reporting the things you may be experiencing. Other options to think about may be other family members, friends, or a trusted adults that would be able to provide you with support or a safe place to stay. It is great that you thinking ahead. Should you feel like leaving home is best, it may be a good idea to think about how you will provide necessities for yourself such as food, clothing, showers, healthcare and other basic needs. You may want to also consider how your parent’s will react to you leaving without permission. We are not legal experts here, but typically as a minor (under the age of 1 you need permission from your parents to leave home. It is not illegal to runaway, but it would mean that your parents could file a runaway report with the police. This is usually done in an effort to try to return you home as the police are required to do so.

    If you can give us a call at 1-800-RUNAWAY or reach out through Live Chat we can try to find some youth shelters that may be near your city and state by utilizing our database of resources. We can also try to call out to shelters with you or on your behalf to advocate for you.

    Stay Strong,
    NRS

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    -Please help me. . Ive had been trying to find help about 1-2 years and i could not . I have to hide my stuff and cry everyday. It really hurts me and i just wanna have nice parents, they yell me alot, when i get 89-95 in grades they yell. It really hurted me when they compare me to others, i cant be myself. I wish i could be myself.. They dont let me have my stuff, they have to pick everything. The thing is they dont support um.. Im really scared to say it but, i wish i could dress up as a boy it painful to hear that my parents dont support me. I mean when i was 4 i started to feel like that i was insecure i know i was young but they were mean to me ,so one day i just telled them i wanna be a boy. they started to hate me after that i got grounded and they just.. i cant do anything. Thats one of my problems. The other thing is that they just give me electronic expensive stuff for gifts, i told them already i dont need it, they just ignore me and keep doing it, and then they tell me im lazy because i just play games the thing is that i dont have nothing to do and they just keep saying it i just only draw and play games because i dont have nothing else, i told them yesterday i wanna sell my ipad to her because she wanted one but she ins't accepting . I wanted to sell it to her since i dont like games much and i wanna buy my own stuff. Like clothes etc. I dont have nothing. I have more problems but i dont have much time to explain . I dont want my mom to know im depressed/stressed my mom fights alot with me and i just keep quiet but i want help because i cut myself and, i cry everyday and is so painful. My mom thinks i watch innpropiate stuff because she doesn't trust me. I never did that..my family makes fun of me. Also and last i have suicidal thoughts. I wish i could explain more but thanks for reading ,,!

    im spanish so my english is not the best im from puerto rico. Im 12 almost 13.

    -mitsu
    (not my real name but i like it.)

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  • ccsmod5
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    Thank you for your response to another user’s post. Often forums are a place of support and understanding for many youth. It often may be validating and helpful for users to read similar situations as well as exchange feedback to one another. For anyone experiencing any difficulties or challenges, the National Runaway Safeline encourages youth to reach out to our 24/7 crisis support line either by phone or chat for immediate services.

    Thank you,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Even i face this often . Many teenagers find this common. Remember she still loves you the most.

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  • ccsmod9
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    Thank you for contacting NRS,
    We are sorry to hear that you and your extended family are going through things. It seems as though you and your mom are not seeing eye to eye, We hope that there can be some solution or coming half way. If you would like to you contact us on our hotline or chat option as well. We can also do conference calls if you would like to seek some way of commuincating with your family.

    You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We can help support you and talk about reporting any kind of abuse going on.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    I hate my mom

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for contacting us here at the National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We are so sorry for the abuse you have been experiencing. We understand it takes a lot of courage to reach out for help and we thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story with us. You do not deserve the way your family is treating you and it is in no way your fault. They act this way because of who they are, not who you are. You will make it through this and you are strong. We are here to support you however we can in this extremely challenging time.

    Please know that your life is worth living. If you are experience thoughts of wanting to kill yourself again, you can always reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). They are a 24-hour, toll-free, confidential suicide prevention hotline for those in suicidal crisis or emotional distress. If you do plan to run away, we are happy to look up shelters, support services, or any other resources you may need. NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance, so if you would like to talk more in detail, please call or chat soon.

    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button). If you are at risk of any immediate danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe and take care,
    NRS

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    I cry everyday.
    My mom, dad and brother always makes me feel low about myself. It is either about ne gaining weight or me talking to other people. They don't want me talking to other people, they don't want me to step out of the house. My brother has no restrictions and my life is full of restrictions. I tried killing myself again and again but failed. I stopped talking to others just because they will curse me if I do so. I stopped sitting with them and talking to them. But still they find some reason or other to make my cry. Their words are very cruel. If they do something wrong its ok and if u do the same thing they punish me by their cruel words. I just feel like killing myself, I am scared to wakeup everyday, I am scared what will happen today. I am a very emotional person, but when others tell me anything I don't seem to care but when my own family treats me like shut, I can't stop myself. I give my everything every day just to make them happy and it's never enough. They don't even spare me on my birthday.
    Now everytime I cry I puke, it's not intentional but it just happens. Right now I am crying my heart out, and I have a joint family. There are 25 ppl in it but still I feel so alone that one day it will kill me. I just want to get out of here, I hope I have enough courage to take my life so this hell ends.

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS
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