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**Guest** · 03-27-2021, 05:24 AM

Everyone's post is so similar to mine. My mom straight away says that she doesn't care about me.i have never herd her say a good thing about me in her entire life. Always yelled me for my studies although I am 93+ all the time. I know I can never satisfy her no matter what I do and how much I love her she will never love me back.she also hates the fact that I'm beautiful and always tries to tell me that I'm ugly. She only loves her golden son and it's really hard for me to accept this. (I'm a daughter in an Indian family) I have had lots of low self esteem problems like social anxiety, bad self talk and being passive aggressive. I can't share my situation to anyone I don't have a luck in friends and she'll kill me if I have a bf. I cry almost daily because of her saying something absurdly mean. I'm on my gap year so staying in home for 24*7 hrs with my mom is a hell u can't imagine, we fight for the smallest issues, she even slaps me at times with zero fault of my. I don't know what to do, if this was to happen what was the need of me to get born. I feel suffocated that I don't have anyone to let my feelings out so thanks for listening. I have an active anxiety and an insecure attachment style all thanks to her.

**Guest** · 04-02-2021, 09:02 PM

That’s sad. I understand how you feel. If my mom did that to me, I would feel bad. Try and explain how you feel towards her. Try working hard and get good grades. Even if you did not get higher than 90, tell your mom that you had tried hard. Your mom may hate you or maybe she is just overprotective. And remember, you are just fifteen so maybe your mom wants to get you a good life ahead. If it still does not work, then I think you should run away.

**Guest** · 04-12-2021, 06:40 PM

my mom would beat me and hit me and when i cry she would beat me some more im only 13 and when i get lower then a 100 or a 95 ill get beat then she would tell me to go on the streets for 3 hours and she would come pick me up after

**Guest** · 04-19-2021, 06:31 PM

I Agree, my parents don't understand, and they recently have been constantly ruining my joy in everything I do. I try so hard to do everything perfectly for them but, it seems like I possibly can't. I can't even relax without me doing everything wrong. I honestly have no clue how to deal with this. Every time I try to tell them what's wrong no one listens, so I just decide not to say anything cause why there be another reason to get yelled at for. I want to run away and not feel this way.

**Guest** · 04-20-2021, 12:30 PM

Sometimes I feel like nobody loves me, I get mentally abused everyday (name calling, insulting me) and even sometimes physically abused (Belting me, Slapping me, punching me to the point where i'm unconscious) They will also beat me then insult like this and i quote "Go sit there inside your wet af pants" after punching me like 6 times. all because i got an F on an assignment Im literally crying as i am writing this. The only care about my piontless grades. and don't see the bigger picture. If i were to say this to them right now. They would just call me a victim and send me to my room and probably belt me again. I just want to live my life but I have no life because of them. Please help me

**Guest** · 04-25-2021, 03:15 PM

My mom makes me do things I don't want to and yells at me. She takes her anger out on me constantly. How can I stop this or make her realize it hurts? And I'm also very so ially anxious, so can you make a solution for me?

**Guest** · 05-02-2021, 01:54 PM

I cried a lot because of my family. Mainly my mom and brother were the reasons I cried. I do still cry a lot as I live with them but it started when I was 4 years old as my brother would insult me, saying I'm lazy because i'm fat. And he said it to me recently too. I hate my whole family except my dad. I recently searched what it takes to be an emotional abuser and my mom fit every trait. She calls me sensitive and my friends are living their happy lives so I can't ruin it and it would be awkward to ask for their help. She says I don't work enough while I do assignments. If I do have missing assignments it's because I need a break for my actual life. I sometimes want to DIE but I'd miss my friends. My mom's friend lives with us which makes life TERRIBLE. When I tell my mom she keeps making up stories about me doing horrible things to her. I currently am crying because i'm probably not going to get fed for the rest of the day as I am "lazy" and "having too much fun". I don't and will not leave my room until she apologizes and that'll be never. I am not joking/being sarcastic.

**Guest** · 05-07-2021, 10:49 AM

My mom does not let my grades be lower than a 85. EVERY DAY she insults me about me not getting a good grade, and I am 8 so can you blame me?

**Guest** · 05-13-2021, 06:08 AM

My does my mom always yell at me and give me the fault for everything I don’t wanne be home anymore

**Guest** · 05-23-2021, 02:48 PM

My mom hits me and pushes me then acts like its nothing and thats shes the best i wanna yell at her and hate her but i go back to loving her she also moves places like from ohio to fl she done this 6 times she blames me for everything

**Guest** · 05-25-2021, 07:45 AM

My stepmom makes me cry a lot like everyday just because I got up 3 minutes early I very much dislike her

**Guest** · 06-01-2021, 09:09 AM

My dad yells at me for small reasons. When I was a kid, he yelled at me for playing Roblox, and made a big deal out of it. He yelled at me so much that I couldn't stop crying, and he still yelled at me! Another time was when I created a google account that came with an email, and I got a bunch of ads sent to me on that email. I told my dad that I made an email, and he told my mom, and they yelled at me all night long! They said they were gonna make me go to child psychology, because I don't listen, but they never told me to not make an email! They said that it was a stupidity making an email. They never let me go on online games, or make any accounts on the internet that can be used to chat with other people, as a kid, even when I had enough common sense, and I was old enough! When I stopped crying, the next day I felt sick. I didn't fell any emotion, or very little emotion, for hours. I never gave out private information to people on the internet as a kid, I was well prepared, but they still didn't want me to go on the internet and socialize. So that means no social apps, not untill I was 18, and when I was about 10, I asked my brother when he got hid first phone, and he said 13, but since the Email, and downloading roblox, it took longer. I asked my dad when I could get a phone, and he said he "didn't know". At the time, most of my friends had phones, but my parents were overprotective, and never bought me a phone.

**Guest** · 06-02-2021, 01:36 PM

I don't even know where to start with this one. When I was younger, every time I cried because of my parents I thought it would be the last, and that when I got older, the tears would finally stop and my parents would well parent in a more loving way. I thought I could finally make them proud of me. It is now 10 years later and I am 16 with just 2 years left before college. All my friends have started talking about how they want to stay close to their family for college and that they don't know how they would leave them, but ever since middle school I've just been counting down. It's gotten especially worse this year due to school being online and being forced to spend so much time with them. I cry about two times a week because they genuinely don't know how to be good people or parents. They've punished me for things as stupid as having a crush and while the beatings stopped, the verbal abuse never really did. Last year I was salutatorian of my grade, and this year I'll be valedictorian but it never seems to be enough for them. I also have a job which I love and am pretty well versed but none of it ever seems to be enough for them. Each day, with every fight, it seems to be the last straw, but they go on pretending like it never happened. Especially my mom. My father and I have had 3 month long periods where we won't even speak to each other because of something stupid. Once it was my 8th grade boyfriend, who was pretty much the only person I love/still love, and he called it an infatuation and almost forced me to stop talking to him and all my other friends. Yet, it was easier to write him off than my mother. On our best days, my mom and I are best friends and we have great conversations. Yet, pretty much every other day a fight takes place in which I end up in tears and she still remains anal and critical of everything I do. She loves to bring up how she could put me under much more pressure and I feel absolutely miserable after most of the time we talk. Every time I think that I should have just stayed up in my room. There are of course many more instances in how horrid they are, even as people, but to cite each one would take the span of my life. I constantly have to tell myself that its only two more years as this is the only 'escape' I have from this household. Everyone and everything in it is toxic, and there is no one I could ever talk to.

**Guest** · 07-06-2021, 01:41 PM

I cry everyday.
My mom, dad and brother always makes me feel low about myself. It is either about ne gaining weight or me talking to other people. They don't want me talking to other people, they don't want me to step out of the house. My brother has no restrictions and my life is full of restrictions. I tried killing myself again and again but failed. I stopped talking to others just because they will curse me if I do so. I stopped sitting with them and talking to them. But still they find some reason or other to make my cry. Their words are very cruel. If they do something wrong its ok and if u do the same thing they punish me by their cruel words. I just feel like killing myself, I am scared to wakeup everyday, I am scared what will happen today. I am a very emotional person, but when others tell me anything I don't seem to care but when my own family treats me like shut, I can't stop myself. I give my everything every day just to make them happy and it's never enough. They don't even spare me on my birthday.
Now everytime I cry I puke, it's not intentional but it just happens. Right now I am crying my heart out, and I have a joint family. There are 25 ppl in it but still I feel so alone that one day it will kill me. I just want to get out of here, I hope I have enough courage to take my life so this hell ends.

**Guest** · 07-13-2021, 12:28 AM

I hate my mom

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