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  • Everyone's post is so similar to mine. My mom straight away says that she doesn't care about me.i have never herd her say a good thing about me in her entire life. Always yelled me for my studies although I am 93+ all the time. I know I can never satisfy her no matter what I do and how much I love her she will never love me back.she also hates the fact that I'm beautiful and always tries to tell me that I'm ugly. She only loves her golden son and it's really hard for me to accept this. (I'm a daughter in an Indian family) I have had lots of low self esteem problems like social anxiety, bad self talk and being passive aggressive. I can't share my situation to anyone I don't have a luck in friends and she'll kill me if I have a bf. I cry almost daily because of her saying something absurdly mean. I'm on my gap year so staying in home for 24*7 hrs with my mom is a hell u can't imagine, we fight for the smallest issues, she even slaps me at times with zero fault of my. I don't know what to do, if this was to happen what was the need of me to get born. I feel suffocated that I don't have anyone to let my feelings out so thanks for listening. I have an active anxiety and an insecure attachment style all thanks to her.

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    • ccsmod15
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      Hi,

      Thanks for reaching out to National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are in a really hard situation at home, and it’s really brave of you to reach out for help. We appreciate you sharing a little bit of what is going on, and we want to support you in any way we can. You do not deserve to endure emotional or physical abuse.

      If you feel that you are unsafe at home and need to leave, there is an organization called National Safe Place that might be able to help you find a safe place to go. Text the word "safe" and your current address to 44357 or go to www.nationalsafeplace.org for more information.

      We may be able to help you better by hearing more details about your situation and how we can help specifically. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

      If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

      We hope to hear from you soon!

  • That’s sad. I understand how you feel. If my mom did that to me, I would feel bad. Try and explain how you feel towards her. Try working hard and get good grades. Even if you did not get higher than 90, tell your mom that you had tried hard. Your mom may hate you or maybe she is just overprotective. And remember, you are just fifteen so maybe your mom wants to get you a good life ahead. If it still does not work, then I think you should run away.

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    • ccsmod3
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      Thank you for your response to another user’s post. Often forums are a place of support and understanding for many youth. It often may be validating and helpful for users to read similar situations as well as exchange feedback to one another. For anyone experiencing any difficulties or challenges, the National Runaway Safeline encourages youth to reach out to our 24/7 crisis support line either by phone (1-800-RUNAWAY) or chat (www.1800runaway.org) for immediate services.

      Thank you,

      NRS

  • my mom would beat me and hit me and when i cry she would beat me some more im only 13 and when i get lower then a 100 or a 95 ill get beat then she would tell me to go on the streets for 3 hours and she would come pick me up after

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    • ccsmod5
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      Hi there,
      Thanks for reaching out to us, we hope to help as best we can. We understand it can be hard to reach out for help at times, we are glad you did! It sounds like things are pretty overwhelming at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way or to be left out in the streets like that without someone to look over you. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
      You deserve to feel safe in your home. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.
      Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We can help support you and talk about reporting any kind of abuse going on.
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe,
      NRS
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