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  • Everyone's post is so similar to mine. My mom straight away says that she doesn't care about me.i have never herd her say a good thing about me in her entire life. Always yelled me for my studies although I am 93+ all the time. I know I can never satisfy her no matter what I do and how much I love her she will never love me back.she also hates the fact that I'm beautiful and always tries to tell me that I'm ugly. She only loves her golden son and it's really hard for me to accept this. (I'm a daughter in an Indian family) I have had lots of low self esteem problems like social anxiety, bad self talk and being passive aggressive. I can't share my situation to anyone I don't have a luck in friends and she'll kill me if I have a bf. I cry almost daily because of her saying something absurdly mean. I'm on my gap year so staying in home for 24*7 hrs with my mom is a hell u can't imagine, we fight for the smallest issues, she even slaps me at times with zero fault of my. I don't know what to do, if this was to happen what was the need of me to get born. I feel suffocated that I don't have anyone to let my feelings out so thanks for listening. I have an active anxiety and an insecure attachment style all thanks to her.

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      Hi,

      Thanks for reaching out to National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are in a really hard situation at home, and it’s really brave of you to reach out for help. We appreciate you sharing a little bit of what is going on, and we want to support you in any way we can. You do not deserve to endure emotional or physical abuse.

      If you feel that you are unsafe at home and need to leave, there is an organization called National Safe Place that might be able to help you find a safe place to go. Text the word "safe" and your current address to 44357 or go to www.nationalsafeplace.org for more information.

      We may be able to help you better by hearing more details about your situation and how we can help specifically. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

      If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

      We hope to hear from you soon!

  • That’s sad. I understand how you feel. If my mom did that to me, I would feel bad. Try and explain how you feel towards her. Try working hard and get good grades. Even if you did not get higher than 90, tell your mom that you had tried hard. Your mom may hate you or maybe she is just overprotective. And remember, you are just fifteen so maybe your mom wants to get you a good life ahead. If it still does not work, then I think you should run away.

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      Thank you for your response to another user’s post. Often forums are a place of support and understanding for many youth. It often may be validating and helpful for users to read similar situations as well as exchange feedback to one another. For anyone experiencing any difficulties or challenges, the National Runaway Safeline encourages youth to reach out to our 24/7 crisis support line either by phone (1-800-RUNAWAY) or chat (www.1800runaway.org) for immediate services.

      Thank you,

      NRS

  • my mom would beat me and hit me and when i cry she would beat me some more im only 13 and when i get lower then a 100 or a 95 ill get beat then she would tell me to go on the streets for 3 hours and she would come pick me up after

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      Hi there,
      Thanks for reaching out to us, we hope to help as best we can. We understand it can be hard to reach out for help at times, we are glad you did! It sounds like things are pretty overwhelming at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way or to be left out in the streets like that without someone to look over you. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
      You deserve to feel safe in your home. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.
      Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We can help support you and talk about reporting any kind of abuse going on.
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe,
      NRS

  • I Agree, my parents don't understand, and they recently have been constantly ruining my joy in everything I do. I try so hard to do everything perfectly for them but, it seems like I possibly can't. I can't even relax without me doing everything wrong. I honestly have no clue how to deal with this. Every time I try to tell them what's wrong no one listens, so I just decide not to say anything cause why there be another reason to get yelled at for. I want to run away and not feel this way.

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      Hi there,

      Thank you for contacting us, we understand it can be hard to reach out at times so we’re glad you decided to make a post. It can be a challenge to feel like you’re constantly under pressure, we hope there are ways that you feel you can cope with the way you feel when you’re home. If you need any support, give us a call or chat with us. If you are considering running away, we can try to help you have a safety plan. We hope this helps!

      Stay strong,
      NRS

  • Sometimes I feel like nobody loves me, I get mentally abused everyday (name calling, insulting me) and even sometimes physically abused (Belting me, Slapping me, punching me to the point where i'm unconscious) They will also beat me then insult like this and i quote "Go sit there inside your wet af pants" after punching me like 6 times. all because i got an F on an assignment Im literally crying as i am writing this. The only care about my piontless grades. and don't see the bigger picture. If i were to say this to them right now. They would just call me a victim and send me to my room and probably belt me again. I just want to live my life but I have no life because of them. Please help me

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      Hey there,

      Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. You deserve to be treated with love and respect and you should feel safe and welcome at home. What you've said about punching and slapping raises a great deal of concern for your safety and well-being. Absolutely no one deserves to be abused. If you are currently at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. If any harm or abuse is happening at home, you have the right to report it. If you feel like this is an option you want to explore, you may find this website helpful: https://www.childhelp.org/child-abuse/. We can also help you to file a report if that’s the route you are considering. You can also talk to any kind of school staff member, medical personnel, or police officer about the abuse and they can also help you file. It may also be a good idea to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.

      If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

      Stay safe,
      NRS

      We'd love to hear from you about your experience using our crisis forum. Your feedback plays an important role in helping us improve our services to support youth and families. Please click the link below to fill out our survey: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/we_care_what_you_think

  • My mom makes me do things I don't want to and yells at me. She takes her anger out on me constantly. How can I stop this or make her realize it hurts? And I'm also very so ially anxious, so can you make a solution for me?

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      Hello!

      Thank you for reaching out to National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are going through a difficult time at home. No one deserves to have someone take their anger out on them and we are sorry that you are going through this.

      We can discuss your options with you, but we may not be able to give you a solution as only you know your situation best. However, we can work with you to talk about what options you have and can help you create a plan to tell your mom that it hurts you, if that is something you are interested in. Or we can arrange a conference call with you and your mom to support you in talking to each other. We’re also here just to listen, if that’s what you need.

      You also mentioned feeling socially anxious and we are sorry that you are feeling this way. It takes a lot of courage to share your story and to reach out for help. There are many resources available to help people cope with anxiety. If you call us at 1800-RUNAWAY or chat with us online at 1800runaway.org, we could connect you with counseling services in your area if that is of interest or just be for you to have someone to talk to. We are anonymous, confidential, and available 24/7.

      Best Wishes,
      NRS

  • I cried a lot because of my family. Mainly my mom and brother were the reasons I cried. I do still cry a lot as I live with them but it started when I was 4 years old as my brother would insult me, saying I'm lazy because i'm fat. And he said it to me recently too. I hate my whole family except my dad. I recently searched what it takes to be an emotional abuser and my mom fit every trait. She calls me sensitive and my friends are living their happy lives so I can't ruin it and it would be awkward to ask for their help. She says I don't work enough while I do assignments. If I do have missing assignments it's because I need a break for my actual life. I sometimes want to DIE but I'd miss my friends. My mom's friend lives with us which makes life TERRIBLE. When I tell my mom she keeps making up stories about me doing horrible things to her. I currently am crying because i'm probably not going to get fed for the rest of the day as I am "lazy" and "having too much fun". I don't and will not leave my room until she apologizes and that'll be never. I am not joking/being sarcastic.

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      Hi there,
      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now. It sounds like you’re fearing that the situation may end in suicide if things don’t change. Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255); www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org is also a great resource to reach out to in addition to our crisis services.
      Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe and stay strong,
      NRS

  • My mom does not let my grades be lower than a 85. EVERY DAY she insults me about me not getting a good grade, and I am 8 so can you blame me?

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      Hi there,

      We are sorry to hear your mom is insulting you and being a bit unreasonable about your grades. That must hurt a lot and you don't deserve that. Perhaps you can try to explain to her how you feel when she insults you. You might also consider talking to someone else you trust about what's going on, perhaps a teacher, another relative, or school counselor.

      You can always reach us if you'd like to talk about how you feel. The best way to do that is through our 24 hour confidential hotline: 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also contact us via our chatroom by clicking on the chat button at the top of our webpage: www.1800runaway.org. We hope to hear from you soon!

      Take care and stay safe,
      NRS

  • My does my mom always yell at me and give me the fault for everything I don’t wanne be home anymore

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      Hi there,
      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
      Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
      If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe,
      NRS

  • My mom hits me and pushes me then acts like its nothing and thats shes the best i wanna yell at her and hate her but i go back to loving her she also moves places like from ohio to fl she done this 6 times she blames me for everything

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      Hi there,

      Thank you for reaching out to NRS and opening up to us about what you are going through. We are so sorry to hear that you are being treated in this way by your mom – you do not deserve this sort of behavior by anyone. It is completely understandable why you feel angry about this situation, but know that there are ways you can work towards fixing this cycle.

      If you are experiencing consistent hits and pushes by your mom, you could consider filing an abuse report on her if you think this would be an effective way to stop this. If you want us to file an abuse report for you, you can always call NRS at 1800-RUNAWAY (1-800-786-2929.) You would need to tell us your city/state address, phone number, names, and other personal information over the phone so the situation can be handled immediately. You can also make a child abuse claim with your state’s Child Protective Services hotline. To learn more about that process, you can visit www.childhelp.org.

      Another option you could consider is seeking social services or therapy for you and your mom to attend so that someone can help you both create a more sustainable and healthy relationship and mode of communication that does not involve hitting.

      We can empathize with how you are feeling as you deal with this and we encourage that you call us at 1800-RUNAWAY (1-800-786-2929) or chat with us at 1800runaway.org if you would like to explore this situation further and discuss more options with us. We are always here to listen and support you! Best of luck with everything and hopefully you are able to figure out your next steps moving forward.

      All the best,

      NRS

  • My stepmom makes me cry a lot like everyday just because I got up 3 minutes early I very much dislike her

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      Hi there,
      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
      Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
      If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe,
      NRS

  • My dad yells at me for small reasons. When I was a kid, he yelled at me for playing Roblox, and made a big deal out of it. He yelled at me so much that I couldn't stop crying, and he still yelled at me! Another time was when I created a google account that came with an email, and I got a bunch of ads sent to me on that email. I told my dad that I made an email, and he told my mom, and they yelled at me all night long! They said they were gonna make me go to child psychology, because I don't listen, but they never told me to not make an email! They said that it was a stupidity making an email. They never let me go on online games, or make any accounts on the internet that can be used to chat with other people, as a kid, even when I had enough common sense, and I was old enough! When I stopped crying, the next day I felt sick. I didn't fell any emotion, or very little emotion, for hours. I never gave out private information to people on the internet as a kid, I was well prepared, but they still didn't want me to go on the internet and socialize. So that means no social apps, not untill I was 18, and when I was about 10, I asked my brother when he got hid first phone, and he said 13, but since the Email, and downloading roblox, it took longer. I asked my dad when I could get a phone, and he said he "didn't know". At the time, most of my friends had phones, but my parents were overprotective, and never bought me a phone.

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      Hello There,



      Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It takes great courage to reach out for help, and we are glad that you have decided to reach out to us. It sounds like you are going through a difficult time and we want you to know that you are not alone.

      What you have described seems abusive and we are sorry that you are having to go through that. You do not deserve to be treated that way, and you do have the right to file a report. One option would be to contact Child Help at: 1-800-422-4453, and they can help you file an abuse report. You can also talk to a teacher or school counselor about what is going on at home and they would be able to help with a report. Lastly, you can always call or chat with us and we would be able to help you make a report.

      We hope that this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore more options please give us a call. We are available to you 24/7 to listen and to provide support through this challenging time.

      Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button). If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.



      Best of luck!

      NRS

  • I don't even know where to start with this one. When I was younger, every time I cried because of my parents I thought it would be the last, and that when I got older, the tears would finally stop and my parents would well parent in a more loving way. I thought I could finally make them proud of me. It is now 10 years later and I am 16 with just 2 years left before college. All my friends have started talking about how they want to stay close to their family for college and that they don't know how they would leave them, but ever since middle school I've just been counting down. It's gotten especially worse this year due to school being online and being forced to spend so much time with them. I cry about two times a week because they genuinely don't know how to be good people or parents. They've punished me for things as stupid as having a crush and while the beatings stopped, the verbal abuse never really did. Last year I was salutatorian of my grade, and this year I'll be valedictorian but it never seems to be enough for them. I also have a job which I love and am pretty well versed but none of it ever seems to be enough for them. Each day, with every fight, it seems to be the last straw, but they go on pretending like it never happened. Especially my mom. My father and I have had 3 month long periods where we won't even speak to each other because of something stupid. Once it was my 8th grade boyfriend, who was pretty much the only person I love/still love, and he called it an infatuation and almost forced me to stop talking to him and all my other friends. Yet, it was easier to write him off than my mother. On our best days, my mom and I are best friends and we have great conversations. Yet, pretty much every other day a fight takes place in which I end up in tears and she still remains anal and critical of everything I do. She loves to bring up how she could put me under much more pressure and I feel absolutely miserable after most of the time we talk. Every time I think that I should have just stayed up in my room. There are of course many more instances in how horrid they are, even as people, but to cite each one would take the span of my life. I constantly have to tell myself that its only two more years as this is the only 'escape' I have from this household. Everyone and everything in it is toxic, and there is no one I could ever talk to.

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      Hi there,
      Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
      Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
      If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe,
      NRS

  • I cry everyday.
    My mom, dad and brother always makes me feel low about myself. It is either about ne gaining weight or me talking to other people. They don't want me talking to other people, they don't want me to step out of the house. My brother has no restrictions and my life is full of restrictions. I tried killing myself again and again but failed. I stopped talking to others just because they will curse me if I do so. I stopped sitting with them and talking to them. But still they find some reason or other to make my cry. Their words are very cruel. If they do something wrong its ok and if u do the same thing they punish me by their cruel words. I just feel like killing myself, I am scared to wakeup everyday, I am scared what will happen today. I am a very emotional person, but when others tell me anything I don't seem to care but when my own family treats me like shut, I can't stop myself. I give my everything every day just to make them happy and it's never enough. They don't even spare me on my birthday.
    Now everytime I cry I puke, it's not intentional but it just happens. Right now I am crying my heart out, and I have a joint family. There are 25 ppl in it but still I feel so alone that one day it will kill me. I just want to get out of here, I hope I have enough courage to take my life so this hell ends.

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      Hi there,

      Thank you for contacting us here at the National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We are so sorry for the abuse you have been experiencing. We understand it takes a lot of courage to reach out for help and we thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story with us. You do not deserve the way your family is treating you and it is in no way your fault. They act this way because of who they are, not who you are. You will make it through this and you are strong. We are here to support you however we can in this extremely challenging time.

      Please know that your life is worth living. If you are experience thoughts of wanting to kill yourself again, you can always reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). They are a 24-hour, toll-free, confidential suicide prevention hotline for those in suicidal crisis or emotional distress. If you do plan to run away, we are happy to look up shelters, support services, or any other resources you may need. NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance, so if you would like to talk more in detail, please call or chat soon.

      Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button). If you are at risk of any immediate danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe and take care,
      NRS

  • I hate my mom

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      Thank you for contacting NRS,
      We are sorry to hear that you and your extended family are going through things. It seems as though you and your mom are not seeing eye to eye, We hope that there can be some solution or coming half way. If you would like to you contact us on our hotline or chat option as well. We can also do conference calls if you would like to seek some way of commuincating with your family.

      You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
      If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We can help support you and talk about reporting any kind of abuse going on.
      We hope to hear from you soon.
      Be safe,
      NRS
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