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    My mom is beautiful but she scolds me in small silly things and mistakes,and she hits me also and I got pain because of her.Then she said it is your mistakes,I will be careless but I apply boroline antiseptic cream.I cry and my mom hugs me and convinces.Then I try to be good boy

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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon. Another great resource that can offer support is called NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness). Their number is 800-950-NAMI or you can text NAMI to 741741. You are not alone in this.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    I always end up crying because of my parents. They always put pressure on me and get mad when I get a bad grade when I try my best, I END UP HAVING TO WAKE UP EARLY AND PUT HARD EFFORT INTO MY WORK and ALL I get is this is unacceptable or when I accidentally spill something they say Why can't you do anything right? They make me feel heartbroken like they didn't even love me in the first place. I kinda wanna be dead I feel like nobody understands me. My hearts already been broken by them. Then, they come back saying were sorry and then they do the same thing over and over again... I've been getting nauseous lately heard because no sleep, bad diet, stress or anxiety. School has been giving me stress and I have to wake up by 6:00 so not that much sleep..

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    yeah me too

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  • ccsmod13
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    Hello,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you are going through a tough time at home right now. One option to consider is to talk to a trusted adult like a family friend, school teacher, or a guidance counselor about your feelings and the situation going on at home. They may be able to provide some insight or help you find resources that can help your situation. Another option is to consider family therapy so you can facilitate a discussion with your parents about the lies they say and you can explain your feelings. We are so sorry to hear that your parents make you cry. If you’d like to talk more about anything, about your feelings or these options, please feel free to call us 24 hours a day at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929). We are anonymous and confidential. If you don’t want to call, you can chat with us through our website (www.1800runaway.org) We hope to see you soon!

    National Runaway Safeline

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    My parents do the same to me all day, they say lies and make me cry.

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  • ccsmod16
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    Hi,
    Thanks for reaching out to us; we are glad that you did. It sounds like things are really hard and stressful for you. To have your mom finding fault and tying to make situations worse is hard enough, but exaggerating things to your dad makes things worse. It's understandable that you are thinking about leaving.
    We can for sure talk this over with you. We are here to listen and help, so we hope that you can reach out to us either by phone at 1-800-786-2929 or via live chat through www.1800runaway.org
    You have survived so much and are very brave to come here and talk about things that hurt - that takes a lot or courage. We truly hope that we hear from you soon.
    Sincerely,
    NRS

  • ccsmod16
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    Hi,
    Thank you for reaching out to us; we are glad that you did. It sounds like things are really hard and stressful for you at home and that your mom being mean to you makes you sad.
    It is normal to not really like people who are hurting us. What we feel are normal human feelings, and being made to cry everyday is hard to deal with. We hope you can talk about this with someone you trust, maybe a family member or even a friend. It's important to be able to talk about the things that hurt.
    We would also like to talk with you about this and maybe we can help you feel better at home. You can reach out to us either by calling our hotline at 1-800-786-2929 (1-800-Runaway) or by live chat via www.1800runaway.org
    We are here for you 24/7 to listen and help and we truly hope to hear from you soon.
    Sincerely,
    NRS

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    My makes me cry almost every day for being mean to me. When ever she does make me cry I do it like 3 times and then I’m done. But I just don’t really like her at times. Is this normal?

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    Since this was years ago I hope everyone is managing well, I am stuck in the same situations I make a mistake I try to fix it but my mum finds faults in them so i try not to bother her much but she deliberately tries to make the situation worse she makes a big deal about things and exaggerates everything I do to my dad and he is starting to hate me as well i am doing too well right now. I just want to leave.

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hi there, thanks for reaching out out. Sounds like you are in a lot of pain right now, and you are crying everyday due to issues at home and with friends. It's clear this all has taken a major toll on you, and we appreciate you sharing your story with us. You shouldn't have to go through that alone.

    It sounds like their is a lot of fighting at home and disagreements can escalate quickly. If you haven't already, you might try to talk to your mom about how you have been feeling, and how you would like to communicate in the future. It has to be exhausting arguing everyday, and both of you deserve more than that. It's understandable that you are having a hard time opening up in therapy, and it can be really hard especially when you begin therapy to feel comfortable talking about how you are feeling. However, your mom signing you up for therapy could be a sign of hope that she wants to work with you and your ADHD. It also can be a good place to vent on a regular basis so you are getting the support you need if you do start to feel more comfortable. You can also ask your therapist to have a joint conversation with you and your mom about communication at home, and possibly come to compromises or mutual understandings. As hard as it is to reach out for help and to be vulnerable with your therapist and your mom, it also might be the catalyst for the type of change you are looking for. It was a brave first step reaching out to us today.

    If you are needing to vent but not to your therapist or mom, you might reach out to a warm line to talk more about your situation. Here is a national directory of warm lines: https://www.nami.org/NAMI/media/NAMI...ry-3-11-20.pdf. Please do not hesitate to call or chat us at 1-800-RUNAWAY or www.1800runaway.org if you would like to talk more about your situation. We are always here for you.

    Best,

    NRS

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    Hey guys,

    As I was reading these posts, I felt super bad. If I had the chance to help you, I would, no cap. I'm 14 years old, almost 15. I have 2 younger siblings who are brothers. And I for real cry every single day, because of not only my mom, but my friends. And guys, I bet this also happens to you, but my friends always get pissed at me for something I didn't do and then they get really mean, and call you names, and then say they don't wanna be friends anymore. Well, that's kinda where I'm at. And as for my mom, we argue with each other every single day. I mean I'm glad she's stopped spanking my ass when I was around 10 I think? But anyway, she would yell at me over her lungs over the tiniest things like forgetting to feed the cats, not emptying the dishwasher in time. And I keep telling her, "Mom! I'm sorry! Okay?! In case you haven't noticed, people like me that have ADHD tend to forget things very easily!" And I really hate how she doesn't see how much pain I feel every day just from hearing her say hurtful words like "stop ********ing up!", "stop being the one always causing trouble!", etc. And what I mean by her saying "stop being the one always causing trouble", she thinks I'm always starting arguments and fights with my brothers, even though they are the ones starting most of them. And another thing, I kinda grew up lying....like a LOT. I still kinda lie, but barely. I'm trying to tell the truth from now on so they can believe me, but it's not really working. I'm always in my room thinking about how much my life sucks, but when I read these posts, they broke my heart. And to all those people out there who are getting hurt and tortured from their mom's, please know that you are NOT in the wrong, there's always a way to make things right between relationships. But back to my mom, after I'm crying for like an hour or so, she acts like nothing happened. And I mean at least she apologizes, but she says the same apology over and over again, so I'm starting to never forgive, but yet I do. And then we both act like everything's fine, and then it happens again the next day. Like there's never a day where we're both getting along. She also signed me up for therapy, but that ain't doing anything, I like to keep things to myself. Love y'all, thanks for listening, needed to vent lol

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  • ccsmod8
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    Hello there –

    Thank you for taking the time out of your day to get into contact with us here at the National Runaway Safeline, we are always here to listen and here to help in any way that we can. From your message to us, it sounds like you have are going through a very hard time right now and seem to be very overwhelmed with everything that is going on especially with your parents. It’s great that you are able to reach out for help in your current situation, it’s very brave of you to do that.

    Unfortunately, we don’t know much about resources in the UK for we mainly work within the United States. But there are resources that might be able to help you within India that can be of more help. There is the “Childline India Foundation” (http://www.childlineindia.org.in/) in India that might be of more help since our resources don’t go outside the United States. There also might be a number in which you can call as well to talk to them about what has been going on. It might be a great way to talk to someone there that can help you get through these terrible times with your parents and your force marriage. You sound like a very strong girl to keep fighting for what you believe in and standing up for yourself.

    You also mentioned that you were dealing with a lot of suicidal thoughts. Do you have these feelings often to the point where you want to do more harm to yourself and are thinking about acting on these thoughts? If you do feel like this isn’t something that you can control, please reach out to someone that can help you through those times. You shouldn't be afraid to tell other people what you are thinking about doing especially if you are thinking about hurting yourself. You are certainly not alone in this and there are many many people that are here to help you. Depending on where you are located in India, there are several suicide hotlines that you can possibly get into touch with. You can find some of the numbers to call on this website (http://www.suicide.org/hotlines/inte...-hotlines.html). Please to be afraid to reach out for help and be who are you.

    We hope that this resource helps!

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    My mother makes me cry everyday. She wants me to get married and I don't want to. I'm happy being single. Everyday she speaks at least hundred of words that hurt me... And now I feel like I should kill myself and I don't want to do that because I don't want to hurt my father because he's having bp problem and if my family forced me to get married.. I'll commit suicide that's the only option I have because if my family don't care about me what I'll expect from this world

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS
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