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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi,

    Thanks for reaching out to National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are in a really hard situation at home, and it’s really brave of you to reach out for help. We appreciate you sharing a little bit of what is going on, and we want to support you in any way we can. You do not deserve to endure emotional or physical abuse.

    If you feel that you are unsafe at home and need to leave, there is an organization called National Safe Place that might be able to help you find a safe place to go. Text the word "safe" and your current address to 44357 or go to www.nationalsafeplace.org for more information.

    We may be able to help you better by hearing more details about your situation and how we can help specifically. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    We hope to hear from you soon!

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Everyone's post is so similar to mine. My mom straight away says that she doesn't care about me.i have never herd her say a good thing about me in her entire life. Always yelled me for my studies although I am 93+ all the time. I know I can never satisfy her no matter what I do and how much I love her she will never love me back.she also hates the fact that I'm beautiful and always tries to tell me that I'm ugly. She only loves her golden son and it's really hard for me to accept this. (I'm a daughter in an Indian family) I have had lots of low self esteem problems like social anxiety, bad self talk and being passive aggressive. I can't share my situation to anyone I don't have a luck in friends and she'll kill me if I have a bf. I cry almost daily because of her saying something absurdly mean. I'm on my gap year so staying in home for 24*7 hrs with my mom is a hell u can't imagine, we fight for the smallest issues, she even slaps me at times with zero fault of my. I don't know what to do, if this was to happen what was the need of me to get born. I feel suffocated that I don't have anyone to let my feelings out so thanks for listening. I have an active anxiety and an insecure attachment style all thanks to her.

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now. It sounds like you’re fearing that the situation may end in suicide or self-harm.
    Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger (even from yourself) or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255); www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org is also a great resource to reach out to in addition to our crisis services. A good resource for prevention of self-harm is www.twloha.com which specializes in finding ways to cope positively and keep up hope.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe and stay strong,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Hey, Im sorry for what ur going through, and sadly it is very relatable. One second me and my mom are fine and then when I ask her for something (even help) she snaps. She screams at me in front of other people and I cant hold my tears back. I love my mom and i know she loves me but i wish she could show me in a nicer way. When my mom screams at me i get mad but then a few hours later she acts like nothing happens ant gets mad at me for being mad. She also calls me fat in front of other people. i know i am overweight and i try to change but she seems to still be mad. sometimes i feel like she is embarrassed of me. i have had many suicide thought that one time i cut myself on propose and im scared to show the mark to her - one day it will get better.

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  • ccsmod13
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now. It sounds like you’re fearing that the situation may end in suicide if things don’t change. Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255); www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org is also a great resource to reach out to in addition to our crisis services.

    You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to child protective services. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.

    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

    If you would like to talk more in detail please call or chat soon. Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Be safe and stay strong,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    My mum always tries to put me down, she tells everyone that I am a bad person, she ennoyes me all day until my dad gets back to the point that I attack her back when my dad gets back but he defenses her and I get a slap. I'm fead up I have thought of suiside 100 times the only thing that stops me is my grandparents. I whant to die, pls help I can take it anymore

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here 24/7 to listen and provide support to you.
    We understand you are wanting to get out of your mom and dad’s house, we would like to explore this more with you. We are available to you 24/7 to listen and to explore options. Please chat with us or call us at 1800-422-4453.4
    Best of luck!
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    get out of my moms and dads house

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hello there,
    Thanks for reaching out to us. You are very brave and courageous. It sounds like you have a lot going on and deserve the support you need. You said that you are contemplating running away are not sure where you could stay. We could look up places for you to stay at and help with planning the whole thing out if that is something you are interested in.
    If you would like to talk to us further you can call us at 1800-RUNAWAY or chat with us at www.1800RUNAWAY.org. We are here to help and here to listen. You are not alone in this.
    Stay safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I cried today because of my mom calling me daughter and saying she loves me. But I’ve been thinking of relapsing to self harm and so far all I do is scratch myself. Although I am pretty outgoing I just want to crawl in a hole and act like a kid forever and I’m still a kid I started self harming in fifth grade because I had a c in class and I stop for a while when my mom found the scar at the time it looked like a big scar from falling in rocks so she never asked about it again but I can’t take it anymore. She says she’s gonna send me away to her home country because of my grades and how I’m not good enough. I’m not a only child but my siblings instead of comforting me they call me a guilt tripper and how I’m manipulative to others when all I want is for them to hug me just once. I’m not even a freshman yet but I already feel like running so far I’ve saved 250 but idk where I’ll stay if I do run. Please I just need someone to just tell me just once I’m good enough and not a bad person I’m just a kid. They don’t abuse me so please don’t think that
    - anon

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  • ccsmod15
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. They can tell you more about how CPS could respond to your situation. If you ever need assistance calling out to CPS to make an abuse or neglect report please call is at 1-800-RUNAWAY.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    Idc because my mom threatened me to shoot me with a gun and sends me to juvenile for getting a bad grade but the reason is because she never helps me but she helps my brother and when he gets good grades the get to spend farther and son but for me when I get a good grade is I get hit and send to juvenile and when my brother gets a bad grade my parents says it’s fine.

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  • ccsmod5
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hi there,
    Thank you for your response! Often forums are a place of support and understanding for many youths. It often may be validating and helpful for users to read similar situations as well as exchange feedback to one another. For anyone experiencing any difficulties or challenges, the National Runaway Safeline encourages youth to reach out to our 24/7 crisis support line either by phone or chat for immediate services. We hope to help as best we can.
    Stay strong,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    im not under the same pressure but it does REALY hurt

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  • ccsmod1
    commented on Guest's reply
    Hey there,

    Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA). Our knowledge of helpful community based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis related laws is limited to the USA. If you are located in a country outside of the USA, you can use this link to find a youth helpline in or around your country: https://www.childhelplineinternation...pline-network/.

    We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country.

    Be safe,
    NRS
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