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  • ccsmod15
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    Thanks for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. You made a great first step to finding the help that you may need. It sounds like you are going through a lot and the people around you are not being supportive. You deserve to be treated with respect, to experience acceptance and to feel safe.

    We want you to know that you are strong for having gone through so much already. It is perfectly okay to deviate from what others or the common population believe to be “normal”. You’re bravery and resilience is so admirable. You are so strong for having gone through so much without having the acceptance that you do deserve for just being you. Remember that you are not alone. If you ever want to talk more about what you are experiencing or get additional support we are here 24/7 at 1800-RUNAWAY or our live chat service. The GLBT National Hotline at 1888-843-4564 is another option to gain great support from those that are familiar with the issues and experiences of those that are also a part of the LGBTQ community. You can access their website link bellow to utilize all the other possibly useful resources they have to offer: http://www.glbthotline.org/

    You mentioned that you were considering the options that may be best for you. By all means, if you do fear for your safety either now or in the future, do not hesitate to take the necessary steps to regain your safety. This may mean calling the authorities or possibly reporting the things you may be experiencing. Other options to think about may be other family members, friends, or a trusted adults that would be able to provide you with support or a safe place to stay. It is great that you thinking ahead. Should you feel like leaving home is best, it may be a good idea to think about how you will provide necessities for yourself such as food, clothing, showers, healthcare and other basic needs. You may want to also consider how your parent’s will react to you leaving without permission. We are not legal experts here, but typically as a minor (under the age of 1 you need permission from your parents to leave home. It is not illegal to runaway, but it would mean that your parents could file a runaway report with the police. This is usually done in an effort to try to return you home as the police are required to do so.

    If you can give us a call at 1-800-RUNAWAY or reach out through Live Chat we can try to find some youth shelters that may be near your city and state by utilizing our database of resources. We can also try to call out to shelters with you or on your behalf to advocate for you.

    Stay Strong,
    NRS

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    -Please help me. . Ive had been trying to find help about 1-2 years and i could not . I have to hide my stuff and cry everyday. It really hurts me and i just wanna have nice parents, they yell me alot, when i get 89-95 in grades they yell. It really hurted me when they compare me to others, i cant be myself. I wish i could be myself.. They dont let me have my stuff, they have to pick everything. The thing is they dont support um.. Im really scared to say it but, i wish i could dress up as a boy it painful to hear that my parents dont support me. I mean when i was 4 i started to feel like that i was insecure i know i was young but they were mean to me ,so one day i just telled them i wanna be a boy. they started to hate me after that i got grounded and they just.. i cant do anything. Thats one of my problems. The other thing is that they just give me electronic expensive stuff for gifts, i told them already i dont need it, they just ignore me and keep doing it, and then they tell me im lazy because i just play games the thing is that i dont have nothing to do and they just keep saying it i just only draw and play games because i dont have nothing else, i told them yesterday i wanna sell my ipad to her because she wanted one but she ins't accepting . I wanted to sell it to her since i dont like games much and i wanna buy my own stuff. Like clothes etc. I dont have nothing. I have more problems but i dont have much time to explain . I dont want my mom to know im depressed/stressed my mom fights alot with me and i just keep quiet but i want help because i cut myself and, i cry everyday and is so painful. My mom thinks i watch innpropiate stuff because she doesn't trust me. I never did that..my family makes fun of me. Also and last i have suicidal thoughts. I wish i could explain more but thanks for reading ,,!

    im spanish so my english is not the best im from puerto rico. Im 12 almost 13.

    -mitsu
    (not my real name but i like it.)

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  • ccsmod5
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    Thank you for your response to another user’s post. Often forums are a place of support and understanding for many youth. It often may be validating and helpful for users to read similar situations as well as exchange feedback to one another. For anyone experiencing any difficulties or challenges, the National Runaway Safeline encourages youth to reach out to our 24/7 crisis support line either by phone or chat for immediate services.

    Thank you,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Even i face this often . Many teenagers find this common. Remember she still loves you the most.

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  • ccsmod9
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    Thank you for contacting NRS,
    We are sorry to hear that you and your extended family are going through things. It seems as though you and your mom are not seeing eye to eye, We hope that there can be some solution or coming half way. If you would like to you contact us on our hotline or chat option as well. We can also do conference calls if you would like to seek some way of commuincating with your family.

    You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We can help support you and talk about reporting any kind of abuse going on.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    I hate my mom

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for contacting us here at the National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We are so sorry for the abuse you have been experiencing. We understand it takes a lot of courage to reach out for help and we thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story with us. You do not deserve the way your family is treating you and it is in no way your fault. They act this way because of who they are, not who you are. You will make it through this and you are strong. We are here to support you however we can in this extremely challenging time.

    Please know that your life is worth living. If you are experience thoughts of wanting to kill yourself again, you can always reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). They are a 24-hour, toll-free, confidential suicide prevention hotline for those in suicidal crisis or emotional distress. If you do plan to run away, we are happy to look up shelters, support services, or any other resources you may need. NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance, so if you would like to talk more in detail, please call or chat soon.

    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button). If you are at risk of any immediate danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe and take care,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I cry everyday.
    My mom, dad and brother always makes me feel low about myself. It is either about ne gaining weight or me talking to other people. They don't want me talking to other people, they don't want me to step out of the house. My brother has no restrictions and my life is full of restrictions. I tried killing myself again and again but failed. I stopped talking to others just because they will curse me if I do so. I stopped sitting with them and talking to them. But still they find some reason or other to make my cry. Their words are very cruel. If they do something wrong its ok and if u do the same thing they punish me by their cruel words. I just feel like killing myself, I am scared to wakeup everyday, I am scared what will happen today. I am a very emotional person, but when others tell me anything I don't seem to care but when my own family treats me like shut, I can't stop myself. I give my everything every day just to make them happy and it's never enough. They don't even spare me on my birthday.
    Now everytime I cry I puke, it's not intentional but it just happens. Right now I am crying my heart out, and I have a joint family. There are 25 ppl in it but still I feel so alone that one day it will kill me. I just want to get out of here, I hope I have enough courage to take my life so this hell ends.

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    I don't even know where to start with this one. When I was younger, every time I cried because of my parents I thought it would be the last, and that when I got older, the tears would finally stop and my parents would well parent in a more loving way. I thought I could finally make them proud of me. It is now 10 years later and I am 16 with just 2 years left before college. All my friends have started talking about how they want to stay close to their family for college and that they don't know how they would leave them, but ever since middle school I've just been counting down. It's gotten especially worse this year due to school being online and being forced to spend so much time with them. I cry about two times a week because they genuinely don't know how to be good people or parents. They've punished me for things as stupid as having a crush and while the beatings stopped, the verbal abuse never really did. Last year I was salutatorian of my grade, and this year I'll be valedictorian but it never seems to be enough for them. I also have a job which I love and am pretty well versed but none of it ever seems to be enough for them. Each day, with every fight, it seems to be the last straw, but they go on pretending like it never happened. Especially my mom. My father and I have had 3 month long periods where we won't even speak to each other because of something stupid. Once it was my 8th grade boyfriend, who was pretty much the only person I love/still love, and he called it an infatuation and almost forced me to stop talking to him and all my other friends. Yet, it was easier to write him off than my mother. On our best days, my mom and I are best friends and we have great conversations. Yet, pretty much every other day a fight takes place in which I end up in tears and she still remains anal and critical of everything I do. She loves to bring up how she could put me under much more pressure and I feel absolutely miserable after most of the time we talk. Every time I think that I should have just stayed up in my room. There are of course many more instances in how horrid they are, even as people, but to cite each one would take the span of my life. I constantly have to tell myself that its only two more years as this is the only 'escape' I have from this household. Everyone and everything in it is toxic, and there is no one I could ever talk to.

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hello There,



    Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It takes great courage to reach out for help, and we are glad that you have decided to reach out to us. It sounds like you are going through a difficult time and we want you to know that you are not alone.

    What you have described seems abusive and we are sorry that you are having to go through that. You do not deserve to be treated that way, and you do have the right to file a report. One option would be to contact Child Help at: 1-800-422-4453, and they can help you file an abuse report. You can also talk to a teacher or school counselor about what is going on at home and they would be able to help with a report. Lastly, you can always call or chat with us and we would be able to help you make a report.

    We hope that this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore more options please give us a call. We are available to you 24/7 to listen and to provide support through this challenging time.

    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button). If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.



    Best of luck!

    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    My dad yells at me for small reasons. When I was a kid, he yelled at me for playing Roblox, and made a big deal out of it. He yelled at me so much that I couldn't stop crying, and he still yelled at me! Another time was when I created a google account that came with an email, and I got a bunch of ads sent to me on that email. I told my dad that I made an email, and he told my mom, and they yelled at me all night long! They said they were gonna make me go to child psychology, because I don't listen, but they never told me to not make an email! They said that it was a stupidity making an email. They never let me go on online games, or make any accounts on the internet that can be used to chat with other people, as a kid, even when I had enough common sense, and I was old enough! When I stopped crying, the next day I felt sick. I didn't fell any emotion, or very little emotion, for hours. I never gave out private information to people on the internet as a kid, I was well prepared, but they still didn't want me to go on the internet and socialize. So that means no social apps, not untill I was 18, and when I was about 10, I asked my brother when he got hid first phone, and he said 13, but since the Email, and downloading roblox, it took longer. I asked my dad when I could get a phone, and he said he "didn't know". At the time, most of my friends had phones, but my parents were overprotective, and never bought me a phone.

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

  • Guest
    Guest replied
    My stepmom makes me cry a lot like everyday just because I got up 3 minutes early I very much dislike her

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,

    Thank you for reaching out to NRS and opening up to us about what you are going through. We are so sorry to hear that you are being treated in this way by your mom – you do not deserve this sort of behavior by anyone. It is completely understandable why you feel angry about this situation, but know that there are ways you can work towards fixing this cycle.

    If you are experiencing consistent hits and pushes by your mom, you could consider filing an abuse report on her if you think this would be an effective way to stop this. If you want us to file an abuse report for you, you can always call NRS at 1800-RUNAWAY (1-800-786-2929.) You would need to tell us your city/state address, phone number, names, and other personal information over the phone so the situation can be handled immediately. You can also make a child abuse claim with your state’s Child Protective Services hotline. To learn more about that process, you can visit www.childhelp.org.

    Another option you could consider is seeking social services or therapy for you and your mom to attend so that someone can help you both create a more sustainable and healthy relationship and mode of communication that does not involve hitting.

    We can empathize with how you are feeling as you deal with this and we encourage that you call us at 1800-RUNAWAY (1-800-786-2929) or chat with us at 1800runaway.org if you would like to explore this situation further and discuss more options with us. We are always here to listen and support you! Best of luck with everything and hopefully you are able to figure out your next steps moving forward.

    All the best,

    NRS
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