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    i also have the same prombum my mom yells and cusses at me everyday sometimes she does not.i live in west virginia. im a 12 year old girl almost 13 on june 12th and i also have very high auitum but my mom does not care about my heath alot eather and me and my mom use to have a very close bond but now i fell like we are worst enimys.i almost ranaway yesterday but i did not have the courage to and i was think about cutting my wrist a little last week but again i did not have the courage becouse i known that my mom would most likely notice.so life is over the top hard and stressful right now

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    Hi there,

    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. We are sorry to hear about all that you have been facing and want you to know that you deserve to feel safe and happy in your home. We understand that it takes a great deal of courage to seek help. You mentioned experiencing emotional abuse which may be reportable against your parents. Please keep in mind you by no means deserve any type of abuse, emotional or otherwise. Unfortunately, emotional abuse is often harder to provide evidence for compared to physical abuse which is often what CPS relies on when conducting an abuse investigation. That said, we can’t be 100% sure what the outcome will be if your local CPS decides to open a case based on what you share. Sometimes CPS decides to remove minors from the home and other times they offer services such as family counseling or mediation instead. The only way to know the outcome might be to reach out to them directly and if you’re ready to do that we are here to help you through that process. Reaching out to Child Help USA at (1-800-422-4453) or www.childhelp.org may help to get a better understanding of what may happen before and after a report is made. You also mentioned physical abuse which would be reportable. Is there someone that can help you make that call to Child Help like a friend, other family member, or counselor at school? We understand that you can't make the call from home, but is there a way to get to a pay phone or is there someone you trust that you can turn to? You can always reach out to us at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) and we could also help you make that call. Don't hesitate to reach out to us. We're here to listen, here to help.

    Stay safe,

    NRS

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    I'm an Indian girl, and my life is a minefield right now too: one wrong step and you are dead. I get hit and screamed at for the littlest of things. I can't call child protection services or whatever, because they track everything I do on the landline (they don't trust me enough to get me a phone, and anything I do on my laptop can be tracked too. I'm on an incontigo tab right now.) I am verbally abused, but that doesn't count. I just got hit and screamed at for wanting to knit a hat myself for my grandparents. They made me do it 12 in the night, and started scolding me for not doing it perfectly. I never was good at art, only in music. I get okay grades, and just like you, I get screamed at for not getting perfect grades. I had one crush on this boy, and they hit me and wished I was never born. I do too, Mom.

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  • ccsmod4
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    Reply: I have the exact same problem.

    Thank you for your response to another user’s post. Often forums are a place of support and understanding for many youth.
    It often may be validating and helpful for users to read similar situations as well as exchange feedback to one another. For anyone experiencing any difficulties or challenges, the National Runaway Safeline encourages youth to reach out to our 24/7 crisis support line either by phone or chat for immediate services.

    Take care,
    NRS

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    I have the exact same problem. I’m a Pakistani Muslim girl and the pressure is unreal. Crying is an everyday thing. Locking myself in the bathroom and crying is an everyday thing. I can't explain how much I relate to everything you said. Whenever my mom hurts me, I hate her for a few hours but then I go back to loving her because she acts like it never happened. My mom thinks that whenever I’m on my laptop or my phone I’m watching something inappropriate or bad. This leads to her not trusting me and hating me. I’ve had suicide thoughts go through my head and I’ve tried once. Plus there's the pressure of me being a Muslim. I live in a western country so everything is hard. Of course there are bullies, but my parents also force me to wear full cover clothes. My childhood is gone. They forced me to cover since I was 9. My mom gets mad at me for the tiniest things. She yells at me if my shirt is misplaced or if my room is a little messy. She hits me with a belt and stick. It’s terrible. But now that I know someone has the same problem as me, I can relax just a little. Stay strong love, we'll get through this~
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    RE: I cry almost everyday because of my mom.

    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are in a difficult situation, and we understand it takes courage to reach out for help. The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA). Our knowledge of helpful community based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis related laws is limited to the USA. If you are located in a country outside of the USA, you can use this link to find a youth helpline in or around your country: http://www.childhelplineinternationa...where-we-work/
    We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country.

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    Guest started a topic I cry almost everyday because of my mom.

    I cry almost everyday because of my mom.

    my mom has always put pressure on me about my grades. i am fifteen and the only child, so sure of course the pressures there. but not this much.
    i would say im a pretty good student, i mean not ALL As but they were fairly good. but my mom doesnt stop there. she screams at me whenever i get lower than 90, and whenever someone gets higher than me. she always ask about my friends' grades. she doesnt get the fact that there will always be someone better than me.
    but not only that, she constantly insult me, hence my self esteem. im pretty insecure because all these years my own mother has been telling me how ugly i am, how dumb i am and how imperfect i am. she constantly compares me to my friends and others too. She would snap at the smalles things, like me not putting the towel neatly. people might say "oh thats such a small thing to cry over" but they dont understand. it hurts so much to hear your own mother tell you that you are so useless that you cant even do a little thing right.
    but after i cry, she goes back to her normal self and pretends like nothing ever happened. she doesnt acknowledge my tears or anything. i hate it so much, that she pretend not to see anything. then she would come talk to me saying it was all for my own good. I hate the fact that i cant bring myself to hate her after countless times of her hurting me. thats one of my many flaws (i know quite a lot because she tends to point them out everyday), not being able to hate someone. after she talks to me, I just go weak and forgive her inside. and the next day, it all happens again. I never learn.
    there was one time that i bought a shirt with my own money and she hated it. she hates me making my own decisions. everything i eat, every single thing i buy, everywhere i go, i need to tell her. anyways when i came back home with that shirt, she immedietly went furious. the shirt didnt even cost that much. she told me to go change and grabbed a bamboo stick and started hitting me. this was when i was in seventh grade. i curled up into the corner and cried and begged her to stop while she kept hitting me. there were scars everywhere for the next five days. and then she tore up the shirt into pieces and threw it away. what hurt more than the stick was her words. i remember the exact words, "if i knew you were going to turn out like this, I would have never given birth to you."
    I dont think i can report for child abuse because i live in an asian country and hitting kids is normal. but i dont know what to do. trust me, ive had self harming thoughts in my head but i never did because i was too much of a coward. and moreover if my mom finds out she would hit me more because i cut myself. she would even blame me, if i were to get into an accident. taking to her wont work, she would say i was talking back and hit me again.
    i just need some advice, i really dont know what to do.
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