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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. We are sorry you are going through such a difficult time with your mom right now.
    We want you to know that your life is valuable and there is always someone willing to listen and provide support. You can always call The National Suicide Prevention Line at: 1800-273-8255. Also you could consider talking with your school counselor about what has been going on.
    We wish you the best of luck. We are always here to provide you support and to listen. We want you to know that you are not alone in this and please stay strong!
    NRS

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    My mom always puts me down and makes me cry so much. She always insults me and makes me feel bad. My mom makes me feel sucidal.

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  • ccsmod13
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    Hi there,

    Thanks for reaching out to NRS. It sounds like you have been going through a lot at home and you have been dealing with a very difficult situation. It is really insightful and mature of you to recognize that the situation at home is toxic. Home is supposed to be somewhere safe and you deserve to be treated in a way that makes you feel supported and cared for. The way you feel is completely valid. It can be hard to want to love your family when you are under so much stress at home.

    Having a safe space to talk about how you have been feeling at home can help you think more clearly about what you would like to do and brainstorm options you did not previously think of. Talking to someone at school you trust like a counselor or teacher can help you find the support that you need.

    We are not quite sure what the situation at home is, but if you feel like it is abusive you can contact the National Child Abuse Hotline at 800-422-4453 or go to www.childhelphotline.org.

    We are here 24/7 to listen and help. You do not have to go through this alone and we are here to support you. Do not hesitate to reach out anytime (800-786-2929 ; 1800runaway.org) if you want to talk more in detail about your situation and explore your options.

    We hope to hear from you soon,
    NRS

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    My family has a toxic abuse cycle

    my parents had arranged marriage. They fight a lot and my mom ends up crying by herself. I want to help but my mom is harsh towards me as well. She loves me than yells hurtful toxic words at me, that’s why in this continues cycle. My parents are also very strict. I want to love my family but at the same time they don’t feel right. I also have anitety issues within my family. I am comfortable near a starnager than I am to my own family. I really don’t know what to do. Please help me

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  • ccsmod13
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    Hi there,

    Thanks for reaching out to NRS. Sharing your story takes a lot of courage and strength. From what you mentioned, your mom has been putting a lot of unnecessary pressure and stress on you to get high grades in school. You deserve to be treated in a way that makes you feel safe and supported. The way she hits you and talks down to you is not okay.

    It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and like you’re fearing that the situation may end in suicide if things don’t change. Your safety and well-being is important. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-8255 (www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org) is always available if you need someone to talk to about how you have been feeling. Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. Reaching out to a school counselor or another adult that you trust could also be a good outlet for you as well. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This may be an isolating and lonely time for you, but you are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.

    One option that you do have is to report the issues at home. A child abuse report can get a caseworker involved. After making a report, a caseworker will likely come to your home to talk to you and your parents to decide if it is safe for you there. This can be a scary decision to make and you do not need to make it alone. If you want to know more about the reporting process or you would like to start the report, you can call the national child abuse hotline at 1-800-422-4453 or go to https://www.childhelp.org/hotline/. Additionally we are here by phone and chat 24/7 to listen and help.

    We are here to listen if you feel like you need someone to talk to about all of this. You do not have to go through this alone, and we care about your safety and well-being.
    Do not hesitate to reach out if you want to talk more about what is going (800-786-2929 ; 1800runaway.org).

    Be safe,
    NRS

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    I’m honestly just done. First off, already there’s that Asians get good grades and score sky high. Well I don’t. I get a B in math and another in Science. What happens when the school grades app flashes on my mom’s phone? The hand comes out and several huge red marks appear on my face and my back. I don’t know why my mom wants me to get straight A’s. If it’s not an A she doesn’t take it at all. A single B appears and she’s already blown her ********ing head off and she’s out to kill me. One late assignment? Blame the phone. One mediocre grade? Blame the games. One question wrong on a test? Here comes the belt. It’s not like I don’t try in school either. I try my hardest and I put out work that is to the best of my own abilities. But she doesn’t recognize that. She just says I didn’t try and spanks me and shames me for “not trying”. Wish she would think that if I actually didn’t try then I would’ve ditched school and hit her back. I’m even stronger than her but she can’t accept the fact that someone has some strength over her so she just destroys me with words and crushes my self-esteem. (I’m SLIGHTLY (5 pounds) overweight) and she calls me a fat and lazy guy that will never ever find a significant other and never succeed unless I get good grades. It’s not ********ing Asia and I don’t want to go to a fancy ass school up north. I don’t. Obviously my dreams don’t matter I guess so I’m a puppet to her. Suicidal thoughts are more common than smiles in my life and I’m just done with having my friends feel bad for me. They shouldn’t have to change their mood because of me and my MOM.

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  • ccsmod3
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    Thank you for reaching out to us. It sounds like you are going through a lot and it’s really brave of you to be able to express how you feel so openly. It must be tough to be such a good support for your mom and not get that same support back from her when you need it. Since you aren’t getting that support at home you can try and talk to a therapist, friends or other family members about what you are experiencing. If you are not ready to talk to your mom about how you feel yet, talking to other people who won’t judge you can help. You can also text NAMI at 741741 if you ever want to talk over some of those issues with someone.
    It seems like you really want to be able to talk to your mom about how she is making you feel. Some ways that you could possibly do that is through therapy, a conference call with us or maybe having a family member who you both respect come in and help you guys have the conversation. If you wanted to do a conference call with us, you would just have to call us at 1800-RUNAWAY and then we would call your mom and try and give you support while you try and explain to your mom your concerns. Therapy could be a good long-term option so that you guys could learn some tools on how to communicate effectively to each other. It’s hard to start these conversations but you reaching out to us now is a start. If you have any other questions or concerns you can always contact us at www.1800runway.org via email, chat or call. We are 24/7 and confidential. Best of luck!

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    My mom doesn’t understand that I’m going through really tough times. My grades are not the best, I have divirced parents, and I could go on and on. It really upsets me because I try so hard for her to make her happy and it is never good enough for her. I cry every day because I want to be good but I can only try so hard for what she wants me to be. She takes my phone over the slightest of things and not having it gives me bad anxiety. She cries all the time from my dad and I always comfort her, though when I’m crying over her telling me that sh hates me, she doesn’t do anything about it. I wish I could tell her how much it hurts me and how much she is hurting me. I just got yelled at for not putting a garbage beg in the can. I asked my step dad to do it for me because I was busy and she was in the room as I asked him. He said yes and he never did it. She’s yelling at me for it when she knows I asked someone else. I really wish I can privately talk to her about this but I’ve tried, she a.ways yells at me when I bring stuff like this up, so I don’t know what to do anymore. Even if no one has a solution for me, I’m still a little better to even be able to say all of this without being yelled at. But I guess if you do have something to tell me for this, respond as soon as possible. Thanks.

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline and sharing some of your story with us. It sounds like you are having a really difficult time right now. One option you could consider is talking to your mother about how you feel in a calm way. We know that can be scary, at NRS we offer conference calling where if you call us we can call out to your mom and have a conference call. Conference calling allows you to be heard and we are there to mediate the conversation and provide support.
    You mentioned crying all the time, sometimes figuring out the reason can help. One option to consider is to talk to your school counselor or a therapist about how you are feeling. They may be able to explore options and help you feel better. You mentioned your dad slapped you and made you fall down. If you feel you are being abused you can make a report by calling Child Help at: 1800-422-4453.
    We hope this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore more options please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and to provide support. Best of luck!
    NRS

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    im in my moms phone hiding making this writting my mom screams at because i did not clean takes away everything away that i have fun with she is not fair with me my sister gets money for free i have to clean the hole house for a hole all week i cry every day and when i cry my mom doesn't let me cry she yells at me of my grade she says i bad grades but i actually have the best grades also my step dad did this i was watching a video with my sister in the tv she kicked me she started yelling my step slaps and makes fall down i am 11 years old some times i think of killing my self but i don't do it because i now you go to hell if you do that and i want to have my own supercar company when i grow up

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    same thing for me just younger and my mom hurts me so much the only way i can seep is by me crying mysef to sleep

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hi there,

    You’re very brave to reach out to us. We are sorry to hear your family is unaccepting of you and does not understand what you are going through. You don’t deserve the emotional abuse whatsoever. It really does hurt, though. You have a right to feel heard for all this hurt you are going through.

    It sounds like you might be interested in leaving home. Because you are an adult, you have that right. But that still might seem like a daunting task. Fortunately, you do have options. Perhaps there are housing options at your university, for instance. Additionally, your school may have a counseling office that might be able to help.

    Another great resource is the LGBT National Hotline. The number is 1-888-843-4564 and the website is www.glbhotline.org. Of course, we are always here for you as well at 1-800-RUNAWAY. We are confidential and are here 24/7. We can talk about what you’re going through as well as look for resources that might help, like housing assistance, counseling outside of school, and even stuff like legal aid. Even if you just want to talk, we’re here to listen, here to help. We also have a chat option on the main page of our website.

    You’re not alone. So many people have been in a similar position as you. It’s sad that family sometimes completely misunderstands us. But who knows if things might even change with them, one day. It’s great you have a supportive girlfriend. It’s okay to feel sad in the situation you are in. But things can really get better. It just is a matter of time and reaching out for help.

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Stay safe,
    NRS

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    Hi
    i am 20 years old and still live with my parents because I’m going to a university 15 minutes away. I’ve been dealing with their behavior for years; the beating and emotional abuse. Now it’s just emotional abuse that they frequently do. I’ve been diagnosed with depression, went to therapy, got on meds etc but they still don’t understand depression. The worst thing is I’m a lesbian and brown girl from a Muslim household in California. Most of my anger and sadness comes from this for several reasons. My family will never accept me and they think I’m a failure already. Worst of all I have to lie all the time and can barely leave my house. I have to lie because I’m only allowed to go to school and then come home straight after. So I can barely see my girlfriend who is my only support system. I’m also forbidden to work right now because they want me to focus on school. Every time my parents speak to me I sob for hours and I get so angry. I feel helpless and I don’t know what to do anymore. I can’t take it anymore. I don’t want to be here anymore.

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  • ccsmod9
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.
    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe, NRS
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