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    My mom sent me this text last night and i sent it to someone else and ended up staying at there house and my mom told me to come home and when i showed the person that she wanted me home she told me that i wasnt going home and got into an argument with my mom and didnt tell her she saw the this text because she didnt want to start more issues now my mom is calling me a liar and a manipulator because i stayed there last night. Normally at that point i would have self harmed but my boyfriend was there for me and so was my friend and i didnt do it. Now that im home i dont want to be home because i know my mom is going to scream at me and just say awful things and i dont want to go through this stuff again. What should I do?

    You think everything he does is horrible and he is always wrong and that's what he says about you. Both of you have to give it up and grow up. You are both around forever. End of story. The only thing you both do is break me down and hurt me by trying to put me against the other daily and that's not ok. For either of you. It's rude, it's inconsiderate, it's hurtful and wrong for you both to do. So pretty much you both let me know daily how much you hate me because you hate each other and want to hurt me daily trying to bring each other down. Stop it! Just Stop!!!!! This has gone on for too long!

    You really hate me that much you want to make sure I am being hurt daily. Grown up M******! Get that he was talking to another adult too and I know that's not all that happen. Learn to be respectful. I am over this! I will eventually kick both of you out if you can't talk and put aside your differences. I personally don't care any more as over 4 years of this crap and hurt from you both is bull******** and I don't deserve any of the ******** you have done, said, or put me through. I have done nothing but put my life on hold for you. I have spent every dime and my life out there to make sure you where ok. I am I've $25,000 in debt from trying to raise you and your sister by myself and you have done nothing but be mean, hurtful, ungrateful, a lier and manipulator. You have put myself and our family in harms way and in dangerous situations, including your unborn sister. You want to be an adult start acting like one or move on. I will not do this with you any more and I am putting my foot down. You and J**** have an issue go to Councling together, talk, work it out, be adults! You want to be treated like one act like one! You have a problem with someone deal with it. Address it maturely. You want a job but what are you going to do when you have workplace conflict. Stomp your feet, throw yourself on the ground, cry, give attitude and lie and cuss and talk ******** to them and about them like you do to us and to me for years?!

    Grow up M******* get a grasp on life and stop being such a spoiled brat! You are 16! Not 5. I will no longer be pinned against my husband. Learn to be respectful and talk to people like an adult.

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    Thank you for reaching out to us at The National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like your relationship with your mom is causing you stress, and we are sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time. We are not here to tell you what to do, but we would be happy to talk and explore options.

    Your safety is always a #1 concern, and you mentioned that while you have self-harmed in the past, you chose not to last night due to the support of your boyfriend and friend. It’s great to hear that you have a support system to help in stressful times. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255) is an excellent resource to call if you find yourself wanting to cause self-harm, and another is To Write Love On Her Arms (

    It looks like most of what you sent was the text that your mom sent you, and while we tried our best, it was a bit hard to follow. We would be happy to talk more in detail about your specific situation and you are welcome to call NRS at 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929). We truly want to help as best we can.

    Take Care,

    Please remember you can reach us directly by calling our 24 hour hotline, 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) or through our Live Chat.

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