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    I don't know what to do,
    my parents aren't bad people at all but they get really mad at me and begin emotionally abusing me and physically abusing me when theyre angry, which makes sense, but it really hurts my emotional health and lately ive even had thoughts of ending my own life. I'm 14 and ive done everything wrong. anything bad you can think of, ive done it and i understand my parents but im just not happy at home anymore. theyre taking me out of public school and ive reached out to friends willing to take care of me but dont know how the consequences will be and if i should do it or not. i really dont feel happy and i feel my parents dont even want me around. theyve said it. im 14 and want to leave to my friends house. what should i do?

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  • ccsmod7
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    Thank you for your response to another user’s post. Often forums are a place of support and understanding for many youth. It often may be validating and helpful for users to read similar situations as well as exchange feedback to one another. For anyone experiencing any difficulties or challenges, the National Runaway Safeline encourages youth to reach out to our 24/7 crisis support line either by phone or chat for immediate services.

    Thank you,

    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Hi everyone who is going to read this around the world, i just wanna say that i'm going through something too. I know you are probably feeling alone and isolated in this world. But i understand what you are going through, You are NOT the only one having problems. I know that you might not believe what i'm saying because i'm just 1 person, trying to let you know that I will be there for you, even if i don't know you. Just know i understand how you feel. And if this makes you feel any better...then i've done my job. Everything will get better, trust me...it will. There has to be a little rain (or a hurricane) before a rainbow.
    Sincerely,
    A well wisher

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey there,

    Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. It can be really hard to not feel accepted. Running away is a big decision and it can be very stressful to figure out what you want to do. It’s important to consider all the possibilities that can occur if you leave home. You will need to plan out how you will cover basic necessities like travel, food, clothing, etc. If you have a place to go in mind, it’s good to see what the expectations of the living arrangement will be like; rules, the amount of time you’re allowed to stay, if you’re expected to contribute financially, etc. Living on your own can also bring about many safety risks. You will need to consider ways that you can protect yourself from physical harm as well as the possibility of sexual and labor exploitation. This can all influence your decision to leave.

    You mentioned that you've been having some issues with ADD, depression, and anxiety lately. It can be really hard to live with mental health issues and we want you to know that you aren’t alone in addressing them. If you’d like some additional support, an organization that may be helpful is the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI). You can contact them by calling 1-800-950-NAMI or you can text them by sending NAMI to 741741. Another agency that could be of great help is the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), they can help you locate low or no cost mental health care providers in your area. Their number is 1-800-662-4357 or you can go to their site at samhsa.gov.

    It seems like maybe your parents might not realize how hard thing are for you right now. It could be a good idea to work with a local family counselor or have a conversation mediated by a school counselor/social worker, trusted friend, or family member to help clear the air. If you'd like, you can also call us directly and we can conduct a conference call with your parents so you have a safe environment where you can express yourself.

    If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

    Stay safe,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    I have nowhere to go. I'm a huge emotional mess. I'm trying to figure out where I'm gonna go. I wanna take my parent's '01 Wrangler, but I know I'll get arrested. I'm 12, struggling with anxiety, ADHD, depression, and many more things. I just need somewhere to go where I actually feel accepted in life.

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  • ccsmod4
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    Hello,
    Thank you for writing to us here at the National Runaway Safeline.

    We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you are considering running away.
    Perhaps this is something you might want to talk about.

    We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.

    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to or seek emergency assistance immediately.

    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Take care,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    I’m 12 and I’m thinking about running a way.
    Last edited by ccsmod4; 11-09-2019, 02:14 AM.

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for responding to one of the posts on our forum page. We appreciate you sharing your support with other and it shows you want to help others. While we here at NRS are non-directive we appreciate your concern for others.
    If you or the original poster would like to reach out please do! We are here 24/7 to help and here to listen. Best of luck!
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    Originally posted by FabulousKilljoy View Post
    I'm 13 and I really want to run away. My mom emotionally abuses me and sometimes physical, she said that she would 'beat' me like she did with my sister if I wasn't so fragile. I have only one friend offline because i'm home schooled, but I'm afraid to tell him that I want to runaway. I am aware that the real world is harsh, and I will probably not survive for long by myself, and that's why I want to take a friend, but like I said, I only have one. I kind-of have a plan in my head if I do runaway, but it will probably backfire like most things I try and do. I don't think I can take this much longer, I have become careless, angry at everybody, and bulimic. I also cry myself to sleep sometimes, and self harm. Earlier today, my mom hit me for having an angry tone, but I can't help it. She also chases me around the house trying to hit me with a wooden spoon, but luckily my Grandmother's bathroom has a drawer that blocks the door, but it is on the other side of the house. I'm afraid to tell anybody because I think they will say that I shouldn't 'because she still loves me' but I honestly doubt that, and don't care. I'm starting to fail school and have no appetite most of the time, but when I do, I try to vomit my meal if I can. Please help.
    i think you should tell your mom how you feel and tell someone you trust that can get you help that you and your mom need even though you are scared you should NOT Runaway if you runaway you could most likely get hurt even more there are a lot of bad people in the world and you would need some where to stay it is starting to get cold you could get very sick from being outside so stay and try to eat you could get very sick if you do not eat.

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  • ccsmod6
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    Thank you for reaching out to the National Runaway Safeline. We’re glad that you felt comfortable enough to reach out to us. It sounds like you’re having a rough time with your parents being divorced and going between both houses. It sounds like you’re frustrated your parents won’t listen to you, but you’re trying to get the resources you feel you need. It might be beneficial to have a trusted adult help you speak with your parents. That way you can get across how you’re feeling and what you would like to do going forward. One of the services we offer here at the National Runaway Safeline is conference calls between youth and parents. That way you have someone who can help facilitate the conversation instead of your parents taking charge and ignoring what you may want to discuss. If you want to try this service or just talk more in-depth about your situation, feel free to call us 24/7 at 1-800-786-2929.

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    Guest replied
    My parents are divorced and I’m so unhappy at both houses. It’s the worst being stuck and having no where else to go. My dad threatens to take my car away if I don’t do exactly what he says. My grades are slipping and I have no motivation. I’ve begged my parents to send me to boarding school or something but they refuse.

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  • ccsmod3
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    Thank you for reaching out to us. It sounds like you are having a tough time. This doctors visit seems to be the source of your stress and what is making you want to runaway. Maybe before the doctor’s visit you can sit down and have an honest conversation with your mom about if you are sexually active. If you can’t talk to your mom maybe try a family member, teacher or guidance counselor. If you want information you can go to sexetc.org
    Running away may seem like it can solve everything but it just creates more issues you have to consider. You have to think about shelter and how you would get the necessities you need. Also 18 years old is generally the age that an individual may leave home without permission from their parent or legal guardian. We are not legal experts here but we can speak in general terms. If you are under 18 and leave home without permission, your parent/guardian may file a runaway report with the police. What actions the police take once you are filed as a runaway can vary a lot from state to state and even city to city so we cannot predict exactly what would happen in your case. Generally speaking, if you encounter a police officer while reported as a runaway, you will likely be returned home. However, in that case there may be services (family counseling, etc.) available to you as a youth in crisis/runaway but again, police procedures related to offering those services can be different based on your location or the details of your situation. Another thing to consider is that while running away is not a crime, a legal adult who allows you to stay with them may be putting themselves at risk for being charged with harboring a runaway. One way to find out the laws in your area is to call your local police and ask what their policies are regarding runaway youth.
    Last edited by ccsmod3; 11-04-2019, 03:15 AM.

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    Guest replied
    I’m 13 and I want to run away bc my mom said we have to go to a doctor to see if I had sex with anybody and I’m scared bc I idk man it’s just hard bc I just done living with her frl like I need a better place then this

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  • ccsmod6
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    Hello and thank you for reaching out to the National Runaway Safeline. We’re sorry to hear that you are struggling so much with your parents and siblings. It must be really difficult to live in that sort of environment and it makes sense why you would want to leave. We would be happy to talk to you about running away, what that might look like, and how you can do it in a way that keeps you safe. We can also talk about your situation more specifically and see what other options there might be. Please don’t hesitate to give us a call at 1-800-786-2929 or chat us at 1800runaway.org.

    Best,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    I really, really want to run away, but I'm afraid that I'll get caught. I have a really strict, and mean family. I don't like living with my parents or my siblings.
    Last edited by ccsmod7; 11-03-2019, 04:39 PM. Reason: identifying info / inappropriate

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