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    i wanna run away from home. please help me.

    hey, i'm 16 from india and i wanna run away from home. i'm having all kinda family problems. i really wanna leave.
    i feel like i 'm an obstacle to my family.
    my dad died wen m about 6yrs old. my mom got remarried n i live with my aunts. my àunt didnt get married and she blame me for that. she acts so nice and carring for me in public. so, people like my friend etc said that i'm like a princess. but actually, she scolds me lik hell wen we are alone. she said things she shouldn't i cried almost everyday. i cant take this pain anymore i feel like i will be out of my mind someday... i'v tried to suicide several times. so, please help me. i dont have anyone to talk to.

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    Hi there,
    Thank you for writing to us here at National Runaway Safeline (NRS). We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. It sounds like you’re quite overwhelmed by things at home right now and you mentioned being harmed. We’re sorry you’re going through this. You don't deserve to be hurt in any way. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to 911 or seek emergency assistance immediately. You may also be able to report any mistreatment to CPS. Child Help USA 1-800-422-4453 www.childhelp.org is an organization that helps protect minors from being harmed. It may also be a good place to explore options for staying with another family member or someone you trust as far as transferring custody.
    You mentioned wanting to know how you can leave home before turning 18. The easiest way to leave home is with your parent’s permission. We understand that might be challenging, however, maybe there’s another family member, relative, or a family friend who could help to communicate how you’re feeling to your parents.
    Often, having a safe space to share how you’re feeling may bring a variety of solutions previously not thought of. You are not alone in this. We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time.
    If you would like to talk more in detail please chat soon through our website www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button) if you are unable to call in. We unfortunately cannot give advice as we are non-directive. You know your situation best
    We hope to hear from you soon.
    Be safe,
    NRS

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    I can't really take this anymore. I've thought about running away so many times now, it's unbelievable. I'm tired of being physically and mentally abused for the stupidest stuff. my friend's parents all say that they would only take me in if I got kicked out, so idk what I should do. should I try to get myself kicked out so they'll let me stay with them?

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey there,

    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are in a difficult situation, and we understand it takes courage to reach out for help. You deserve to be treated in a home where you are respected and treated fairly. Your father's behavior is unacceptable and no one deserves to be abused. The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA). Our knowledge of helpful community based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis related laws is limited to the USA. If you are located in a country outside of the USA, you can use this link to find a youth helpline in or around your country: https://www.childhelplineinternation...pline-network/.

    We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country.

    Best of luck,
    NRS

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    Hey! Im 20 years old and Im a female from india I wanna run away from home because I live in my Nani ji's house and their children always says me to leave the house and live in my village but I don't want to live in my village because my father is a monster he used to beat me for no reason when I was young. now he got married to another woman and he didn't give divorce to my mom.he used to beat my mom so that she got mental issues and she can't do anything for me like earn money.my mama and masi says to leave the house cuz that is not my house they don't even want to give us food they just want get rid of us and father too.i tried to committed suicide several times but got saved by God I don't understand what to do I want to do job but they don't let me they just says to leave the house can u please help me? Im so depressed about it my Nani died this year and I feel alone what to do she used to love me so much.i wanna run away that's it PLEASE HELP!!!!!

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for contacting The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It sounds like you are going through a really difficult time right now. One option is you could try talking to your parents about how you are feeling. At NRS we offer conference calling where if you call us we will call out to your parents. Conference calling allows you to be heard, and we are there to mediate the conversation and provide support to you. Another option you could consider if you do not feel like talking with them is writing a note of how you feel, sometimes that helps get everything out you would want to say. We know it feels like at times there is no one to listen but just know there is always someone willing to listen. Sometimes talking to a school counselor or a licensed therapist may help you feel better.
    You also mentioned wanting to run away, we are not legal experts but we do have general knowledge of the laws. If you were to run away, your legal guardian does have the right to file a runaway report. If the police found you they would most likely bring you home. If you do decide to runaway you may want to think about safety, what you would do for food and water, and if there would be consequences for you running away.
    We hope this information will be helpful to you in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore your options more please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and to provide support to you. We wish you the best of luck!
    NRS

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    I want to run away! I feel my family is becoming horrible because of me and imI sick and tired of trying to meet up to their expectations. They want to be perfect and all but they don't see their imperfections. They always find faults in me nd don't see that they are wrong too. I have to take care of my brother and sister while my mother is busy with her phone even my dad. My grandparents constantly nag at me nd I'm so sick nd tired that I just want to run away nd live my life by myself.

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  • ccsmod1
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    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are in a difficult situation, and we understand it takes courage to reach out for help. The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA) and works with young people between the ages of 12-21. Our knowledge of helpful community-based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis-related laws is limited to the USA. If you'd like you can check out http://www.shawmindfoundation.org/su...support-india/ for resources that may be available in your area.

    We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country.

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    I am 24 year girl. I really want to do something good professionally. I am unable to ask for help from my parents financially. Even to go for an interview i need a good pair of clothing & for continuing too. I am not someone who's ok to work in companies like data entry, sales. & after doing graduation from SOL delhi i didn't pursue anything. I never find guidelines what to do. I feel my family unsupportive. I don't want to take a single penny from them. I Just want to do what i would like to do. I am not getting opportunities suiting to my personality. I Want to make my dream come true. Please help me
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  • ccsmod4
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    Reply: I wanna run away from home

    Hello,
    Thank you for writing to us here at the National Runaway Safeline.

    We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on. NRS is here to listen and here to help.

    We want you to know that we are here as support to help you through this challenging time. We can best help by phone or chat as NRS is unable to respond more than twice by email or bulletin for assistance. If you would like to talk more in detail and share more about how we can help specifically, please call or chat soon.

    Our contact information is 1-800-RUNAWAY (786-2929); www.1800runaway.org (click on the chat button).
    If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to or seek emergency assistance immediately.
    We hope to hear from you soon.

    Take care,
    NRS

    We hope this response was helpful! We’d love to hear from you about your experience using our crisis email/forum. Your feedback plays an important role in helping us improve our services to youth and families. Please click the link to fill out our survey: Your Opinion Matters to Us

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    Guest replied
    I wanna run away from home, I seem to have a happy full family but I’m always fighting with my mom and dad and I don’t feel happy anymore. I went to councilling and it kinda helped but I only go once a week and it’s not enough and I feel I can’t talk to my parents about anything anymore

    help me

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey there,

    Thanks so much for contacting us, it takes a lot of courage to reach out and share your story. It must be really hard to live in a home with so much tension. You mentioned that your dad is abusive towards your mom, this raises some concern for your safety and well-being. Absolutely no one deserves to be abused. If you are at risk of any danger or feeling unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to emergency services immediately. Running away is a big decision and it can be very stressful to figure out what you want to do.

    The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA). Our knowledge of helpful community-based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis-related laws is limited to the USA. If you are located in a country outside of the USA, you can use this link to find a youth helpline in or around your country: https://www.childhelplineinternation...pline-network/.

    We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country.

    All the best,
    NRS

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    Guest replied
    hello,im 14 years old girl and i live in india.I have problems with my parents,nowadays i feel very depressed because of my low grades,i try very hard to score good marks but my parents dont't understand me and thus scold and critise me.and on other hand,my dad beats my mom because of me and my low grades.iam tried of this thing,i tried to cut my arm many times
    .please help me if i have run away or not

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  • ccsmod9
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    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline. It sounds like you are in a difficult situation, and we understand it takes courage to reach out for help. The National Runaway Safeline is located in the United States of America (USA). Our knowledge of helpful community based resources and our understanding of youth in crisis related laws is limited to the USA. If you are located in a country outside of the USA, you can use this link to find a youth helpline in or around your country: https://www.childhelplineinternation...pline-network/.
    We hope that by reaching out to a local resource, you are able to get the support you need from an organization that understands the laws and circumstances that affect youth in your country.

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    Guest replied
    I wanna runaway too. From India, 16. Wanna go to the U. S. HELP!

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