I really need help my mom gave me up and my dad doesn't wanna help me

[imstuck12]

every since I was a little girl my mom always brought guys into the house. there was no time she didn't because she was desperate for love. i have an older sister she made it out the house before me. i have trouble conflict in school due to my home problems. my mom never paid attention to me when I was young she barely even helped me when I needed her. She always try to give me away when I was young so she can keep the guy in the house. Every guy that been in the house I had an argument with or even tried to bother me. She never believed me. She called the police making up lies about me so I can leave and he can stay. I am 18 now and shes with a different guy. I dont have her attention at all. She moved in a house with a guy she barely even know and he takes control. He threw me out the house. She plotted a plan on me to get me thrown out. She been trying to give me away since I was little. Due to this I barely have boyfriends or even guy friends around me. I always tried to find me a job but I am living in a small poor town. They discriminate against who gets the job because of the law and danger that has been around here. I do have plans in life and I am the type of person who believes in making dreams come true. As of now I barely talk to my mom because of the guy. There hasn't been a day when a guy has not been around me. My dad is a nothing. He doesn't want to do anything. Since I started in my teenage years he stopped because he knew things would get expensive. I can't get a job because I have no way anywhere. I don't know anyone here because it is too dramatic. I have no money. I am currently enrolled in a 2 year college planning to transfer to my dream college..hopefully in the summer time. My dad doesn't want to do anything for me. I would like a car but he doesn't want to get me one nor do I have a job. There is so much in the world I still haven't learned. I have no help down here. I only have 2 aunties that live where I am located at now. My other family is in Michigan. My sister is in the service and doesn't even come home to visit.. when she was in college she never came home to visit because there was always a guy at the house...my mom did multiple of things to try to give me away for the guy she had there at the time. I just want to have me a car and finalize my plans and dreams in succeeding in life. but with no parents nor money how can i make it happen? my dad has so much income he can't file income taxes. I graduated almost 2 years ago without any help nor money I can't go anywhere. There is no activities here where I am at. I am hopeless here many jobs are shut down. I even went to a 4 year institution university college. I had to come back home because I had no car neither no help from my parents. The most I ever got from my dad dealing with money was 40 dollars. He won't give me anything nor help me get out of here. He doesn't want to talk about anything. My mom is a negative person she always said things to put me down ...saying i wasn't nothing. she doesn't even listen to my problems. I am not a lazy person I enjoy school but without a car and a job how are you going to support yourself? she doesn't wanna help me at all because of that guy. I have had things stolen from me that her guys took and I got blamed. is there any organization that can help me get a car house and a job? my oldest sister had to leave me behind she is scared for me in the service because I have nothing. my mom didn't show me anything I needed to learn in life. she stayed with her guys. My sister was helping me until she left. without a car what can i do?

[ccsmod5]

Re: I really need help my mom gave me up and doesn't wanna help me

Hello,

Thanks for reaching out to our bulletin boards and sharing your story. Sounds like a lot of things aren’t lining up for you and the support you need from your parents/family isn’t there. You’re right: it is difficult to get started with life with some necessary things.

It’s good to hear that you want to get out of your town that is lacking resources and move to a place where you can flourish financially and educationally. What kinds of agencies or programs have you reached out to with regards to acquiring a car or a job?

We are not familiar with any places that help people get cars but there are possibly plenty of agencies that can help guide you with employment. We didn’t catch what city/state you’re in and that’d be helpful for providing you resources with regards to what you’re looking for. Sometimes, in most cities and states, the Salvation Army or Catholic Charities can help with employment and finances.

If you want to explore more options, you can call our hotline at 1800-RUNAWAY (786-2929) and talk with someone about what may be available to you. We are available 24 hours a day to talk with you. You can also chat with someone online with our live chat service from 430p-1130p.

Best of luck,
NRS

[imstuck12]

I really need help my mom gave me up and my dad doesn't wanna help me

i dont think there is any here. im in arkansas. im more closer to the capital

[ccsmod10]

RE: I really need help my mom gave me up and my dad doesn't wanna help me

Hello again, and thank you for responding. It sounds like you are near Little Rock, Arkansas, and are hoping for help finding employment, so that you can get a car, or at least simply find an agency that can help you find a car.

It also sounds like overall you are very frustrated with your mom and dad, and want to be treated with more respect by them.

We don't have specific information on programs that help people get a car, unfortunately, but we do have information on agencies that can help you find a job. You stated that you are near Little Rock. In Little Rock, we found these options that you can consider:

Little Rock Job Corps Center
(501) 376-4600
(800) 294-0760

http://www.del-jen.com

Our House, Inc.
(501) 375-2416

http://www.ourhouseshelter.org

Gyst House
(501) 568-1682

All of these agencies are open during the week, during standard business hours, and may be able to assist you.

You always have the option of calling us to continue this conversation. We are available in our call center 24 hours a day, 7 days week. We provide support and resources to our callers, and are 100% confidential and anonymous. Find us at 1-800-RUNAWAY (800-786-2929), or chat with us between 4:30pm and 11:30pm Central time, via our website right here at http://www.1800RUNAWAY.org - just click the big red button.

Thank you again for reaching out, and take care.

~NRS