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  • ccsmod6
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for reaching out to NRS. We understand it takes great courage to reach out, and we appreciate you sharing a little bit about what’s going on.
    We’re not legal experts so we can only offer some general information on the subject of moving out of your parent’s home. In most states you must be 18 years of age to move away from your parent’s home without their permission. Moving out is a huge step into adulthood, and it sounds like you’re ready to make that decision.
    We are here to listen and here to help support you. It sounds like the situation at home is causing you some stress. Your mental health is important. If you are going through a rough time right now, an option to consider would be to talk someone like a trusted family member, friend, or counselor to help you with these emotions and feelings. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to someone in person, you can text a counselor through an organization named the National Alliance on Mental Illness. You would text the word NAMI to 741741, and be back and forth with a counselor, and they can refer you to counseling services in your city and state as well.
    We hope this information has been helpful for you. If you’d like to call us to discuss your situation more in depth and talk about resources available to you, feel free to call us at 1-800-786-2929 or chat with us through our website at www.1800runaway.org.
    Best of luck,
    NRS

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    ill be 20 tomorrow on January 27 2020 and my parents keep saying im not mentally stable to move out, even when I can take care of myself and my siblings and the house we live on I had a bad past and made a lot of mistakes growing up but none of them were legal. im not sure what to do anymore and I need someone advice. thanks for ur time.

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hello! Thank you so much for reaching out.

    You mentioned that you’re 18 and are considering leaving your home. Moving out is a huge step into adulthood, and it sounds like you’re ready to make that decision. We’re not legal experts, but in most state, anyone under 18 is considered a runaway. Running away is not a crime, but your mom may still contact the authorities and file a missing person’s report if she doesn’t know your whereabouts. An option you may want to consider would be to contact your local non-emergency number, and inquire anonymously about runaway and missing persons procedures and policies.

    We hope these options and resources have been of some use to you. If you need additional help, or want us to call somewhere on your behalf, feel free to reach out to us 24/7 at 1800) 786-2929. Best of luck!

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    Guest replied
    well i dont want to live with my mom and i want to run off with a guy what can my parents do about it

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  • ccsmod2
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    Hello There,
    Thank you for reaching out to The National Runaway Safeline, we are here to help and here to listen. It seems like you are in a difficult situation.
    We are not legal experts but it does look like the legal age to leave home in Puerto Rico is 21. What that means is if you were to leave without permission you could be considered as a runaway. If the police did find you they could bring you back home. You could always call your local police department to find out the best answer.
    We wish you the best of luck in your situation. If you have any other questions or would like to explore options please give us a call. We are here 24/7 to listen and to provide support.
    NRS

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    Hi am 18 and I live in Puerto Rico and I want to move out to the states but my dad said he will call the cops if I try to runaway or get out of Puerto Rico cuz the age of emancipation is 21 would I get introuble if I move to the states while a missing report is done in Puerto Rico

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey Luis,

    Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. It makes sense that you would want more independence from your parents now that you are a legal adult. Leaving home is a big decision and it can be very stressful to figure out what you want to do.

    We aren't legal experts here at NRS but the age of majority (adulthood) in the US is 18 (except for NE, AL and MS) so you are considered a legal adult and can leave home whenever you wish. If you leave home your parents can contact the police and request a wellness check to ensure that you are safe. If the police find that you are not in any kind of immediate danger than they would leave you alone.

    It’s important to consider all the possibilities that can occur if you leave home. You will need to plan out how you will cover basic necessities like travel, food, clothing, etc. If you have a place to go in mind, it’s good to see what the expectations of the living arrangement will be like; rules, the amount of time you’re allowed to stay, if you’re expected to contribute financially, etc. Living on your own can also bring about many safety risks. You will need to consider ways that you can protect yourself from physical harm as well as the possibility of sexual and labor exploitation. This can all influence your decision to leave.

    If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

    Stay safe,
    NRS

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    Hi im Luis, im 18 and i want to move out of my parents house, but they think they can call the cops if i leave, in addition im about to graduate from high school and i deserve to go anywhere i want, i even want to go to college out of state, they always try to keep me home, they're wrong! I deserve to move out, and get a job elsewhere, and live in another area, like what do i do??
    Last edited by ccsmod1; 01-06-2020, 10:50 AM.

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hi there, thanks for reaching out today.

    We are not legal experts but we can answer your question generally. The federal legal age is 18, however, the legal age in Puerto Rico is 21. So it would depend on whether or not your local law enforcement considers you an adult at 20. If you haven't already, you might reach out to your local police and ask if you can leave home without being considered a runaway.

    Please do not hesitate to call or chat us if you would like to talk through your situation. We are always here for you. 1-800-RUNAWAY; www.1800runaway.org/

    Best,

    NRS

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    Guest replied
    I’m 20.. I love in Puerto Rico but I’m moving out . Is it okay for me to move out at the age of 20? Can the police officers do something if i move out ?

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  • ccsmod15
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    Hello! Thank you so much for reaching out.

    You mentioned that you’re 18 years old, and your boyfriend is about to turn 18 himself as well, and you guys are trying to move to another state. You’re really brave for taking the big step in trying to start your life, but also wanting to know the consequences of your actions. We’re not legal experts, but in most states anyone under 18 is considered a minor. In Virginia and Pennsylvania the legal age considered an adult is 18. The cops may not come after you, but your guardians may file a missing person’s report if you guys leave without telling anyone. If you wish to know more, you may explore the option of contacting your local non-emergency phone number, and inquiring about laws in your city and state.

    We hope these resources have been of some use to you. If you need additional help, or want us to make a call to another organization on your behalf, feel free to reach out to us anytime at 1800) 786-2929. Best of luck!

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    Guest replied
    I am currently 18 years old, my boyfriend will be 18 Dec 28th. We want to leave Virgina and move to PA but come back to Virginia after a while, we are worried that my parents will call the cops. Can the cops be sent after us in PA even though we both are 18?

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  • ccsmod7
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    Hi there,
    Thank you for reaching out to us at the National Runaway Safeline.

    You mentioned wanting to leave two weeks before your 18th birthday. In Florida, the age of majority is 18. Generally, if you leave before turning 18, your guardians can file a runaway report which would have the police looking for you. If you are staying with friends, they could be charged with harboring a runaway. We are not legal experts, though, and one way to gauge your rights is to reach out to your local, non-emergency police with hypothetical questions. Laws vary depending on situation and location.

    Know that we are here 24/7 if you would like to reach out to us on the phone. Our number is 1-800-RUNAWAY and we are confidential and toll-free. On a call, we would be able to explore your options in more depth.

    Stay strong,

    NRS

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    Guest replied
    i am 2 weeks from being 18. I live in florida. My parents wont let me leave. how much trouble could I get into if I just left?

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  • ccsmod1
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    Hey there,

    Thanks so much for reaching out and sharing a little bit about what’s been going on, we know that it takes a lot of courage. It must be really hard to live in a home with so much tension. It must be very frustrating to give so many restrictions placed on you and to not be able to make decisions on how best to raise your daughter. Since you are 19 you are considered a legal adult (unless you are in Mississippi in which case the age of majority is 21). This means that you can live wherever and leave anytime you wish. If you are planning on living with your daughter's father it is always a good idea to see what the expectations of the living arrangement will be like; rules, the amount of time you’re allowed to stay, if you’re expected to contribute financially, etc.

    If you’d like to go over what’s going on in depth, or if you’d like to explore other options that you may have available to you, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1-800-RUNAWAY. You can also chat us by clicking on the “CHAT” button on top of our homepage. We’re open 24/7 and here to listen and support you in any way we can.

    Stay safe,
    NRS
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